omg, i really need help!

[Coesistere]

ok, so if u dont know yet, i have a girl friend, but i have been having problems ! last night i was at this dance at another school and i was danceong pretty ronchy w/ other girl, plus a slow dance w/ 3 other girls and on top of that there is a mexican girl at my school that i like!! yet i still love my girl friend too!! what should i do!!:confused: :eek: :confused:

[mRojas2000]

Well.... your girl might also like other boys, so don't worry about that!
Then, why does it matter if you dance with other girls? It's just dancing, nothing else... its not ther you aren't free anymore when you have a gf...

[Octo22]

why did you dance with four other girls? why didnt you and your gf set rules for the relationship...such as you can do this, this, but not that, etc. you shouldn't have danced with another girl without having talked to ur gf to make sure it was okay for either one of you to dance with other people.



the word 'love' is thrown around too much. honestly. learn the meaning of the word love before you use it.

if you like the other girl though, your not gonna feel content with ur girl. its best to see whats on the other side imo.

I disagree with the whole "permission to dance with others". What's he going to do, dance alone? Dance with other guys? I'm sorry but if being in a relationship means no fun time with other girls it's not worth it. My best friends is a girl, this intimidates my girlfriends but they accept it because I have her as my best friend for fun not for sex.

[mRojas2000]

I disagree with the whole "permission to dance with others". What's he going to do, dance alone? Dance with other guys? I'm sorry but if being in a relationship means no fun time with other girls it's not worth it. My best friends is a girl, this intimidates my girlfriends but they accept it because I have her as my best friend for fun not for sex.

Exactly... having rules its just stupid. Having a gf, doesnt mean you can't have fun with other girls (you know what I mean!! [NOT sex])
This might make your girl jealous, but I'm SURE that they also talk with guys or might want to dance with other guys, other than him... what if he's bad at dancing and shes good, and she just can't stand dancing with someone like that??
Just have fun, and love your girl, make her understand, and everything will go just fine!!

[mr_smite1]

ye just tell her that dancing is just fun, and u r taunting the ova girls about wat they r not allowed. The just tell ur gf that she is rele special. Dont use the word love unless u r extremely sure it is that

[Coesistere]

[QUOTE=-You.Suck.I.Rule-;100958]
the word 'love' is thrown around too much. honestly. learn the meaning of the word love before you use it.

w/ all due respect to you.suck.i.rule, i dont think u sould be telling me what i think about love. You do not know how i feel about these girls so why do u say i dont know what love is? Not to start a fight but please think of what your saying before u post it:mad: i really do like these girls:wub:

[Hyper]

See in our ages 'love' is a crush

[Coesistere]

but yea, i guess i should call it a crush:wub: :wub:
:( but still in bad situation, i but the dance thing behind me, i dont think she really wants to be in a relationship( as in holding hands and kissing, not sex hell no) we praticaly treat each other as friends, not bf and gf...sould i break up w/ her and see if the other girl i like is avalable.

Please Reply:yes: :wub: :confused:

[Coesistere]

ahhh it is sooo hard, every time i c my gf it gets easyer to not break up, but there is still the other girl that i might be missing out on!!:confused: :( :confused:

[Octo22]

ahhh it is sooo hard, every time i c my gf it gets easyer to not break up, but there is still the other girl that i might be missing out on!!:confused: :( :confused:


So you clame to be in love? But you're questioning dumping her because another girl might be available?


You are so far from love its scary =]

[Coesistere]

o nvm!! sooo i guess we werent in totaly in love but then again, how do u optain true love, when u find it?, do u get a prize?, a little hat or a note sayying congradulations?, has anyone ever contained true love?really, dont you wonder if there is one more person out there that u love more? and when u find that person is there aother one u love more, who knows....a little philosopher words:yes: ( u dont have to anser that , unless u really want to )

so since my relation isnt going so well, sould i give it a little more time to c where it will end up, if we never are able to kiss i think i sold break up w/ her and see where my heart takes me:wub: :confused: :wub: