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axel3
July 8th, 2010, 01:36 PM
okay so i really like this girl and we fool around but when people find out she always tells them that I don't like HER like that. but never says anything about her feelings for me and i DO like her. is she really oblivious to this or is she giving me opportunities to tell her? also since she doesn't say anything about HER feelings and she does things with me does she like me?
Harley Quinn
July 8th, 2010, 01:38 PM
moving to relationships and dating
Jess
July 8th, 2010, 02:23 PM
maybe she's shy and doesn't want other people to know? and is too shy to tell her feelings about you?
Jennifer's Ashes
July 21st, 2010, 11:32 PM
Start going on dates. But don't make them look like dates, just go to see toy story or some animated movie for a joke, just something you would do if you were brother and sister. That way, you can see if she likes you like that. Then, if it seems she does then ask her out, saying how you do like her like that and you have for a long time and blah blah blah... Oh well hope this helps.
AllThatIsLeft
July 22nd, 2010, 12:03 AM
First of all, if you guys are "fooling around" as I think you mean, there are for SURE feelings involved. Now have you taken the time to tell her you like her?

If you're doing stuff, and there has not been no communication whatsoever, obviously she thinks you don't like her like that.

women need told very specifically what the situation is like, otherwise we only suspect, or hope. It isn't concrete.

The reason she probably doesn't say anything about herself, is because she is not sure about you, so she doesn't want to expose herself, but doesn't want to say she doesn't, in case you do. and you might hear.

Talk to her about this, that's the only way you'll truly know for certain. But from what I see, it is obvious that there are feelings involved in both parties.
nickw_2013
July 22nd, 2010, 11:39 AM
You need to tell her you like her. It should save both of you a lot of guessing and hoping. To me it sounds like she likes you, not many girls "fool around" with guys when they don't have some sort of feelings for them.
Ok, well maybe certain girls do, but from my experience, not many do.