"Going out" vs Girlfriend/boyfriend

[bigdawg]

So this may sound stupid but please respond. If I am "going out" with a girl, as in dating/ hanging out with her/ hooking up on a regular basis, is she my girlfriend?? Or do I still have to ask her to be my girlfriend? Thank you.

[Tiberius]

P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating.

[HillBillyWilly]

if you have asked her out and she said yes, then she is your grilfriend and you are her boyfreind. but if you just hang out with the same girl a lot and are very good friends, then no, technically she is not your girlfreind.

[AutumnDae]

Good question, and I'm not sure there is really a right answer. You would have to ask her yourself.

So I'm going to put this in Facebook relationship terms, because, I know them the best to describe this.

Right now, if it were to say anything on your Fbook, it would probably be "In an open relationship" so, if you would like to "close" that relationship, you need to come right out and say "Will you be my girlfriend?"

[Dog Desab]

i like this question, why because of my ex-gf we were basically going out, kissed and had dates and everything but i never asked her to be my gf we just started hanging out a lot... i eventually texted her and asked znd she said yea we were bf & gf then loled at it.... lol

[Sasha]

That's a tough one.

[JakeRS]

Tough one for sure,but if she,he wants to go on more dates than one i think its a relationship.:)

[Daniel_]

What everyone above me said is true.

If you walked up to her and said "Will you go out with me?" And she said yes, you are her boyfriend, and she is your girlfriend.

[Music.]

if you're not quite sure. just ask her. simple as that.

[Zeh Crazy]

I'd say it sounds like you guys are bf/gf.

[Art_dude]

Ask yourself this question: When did you begin to call a friend of yours, a friends? Usually you meet, begin to hang out, and eventually become 'friends.' At what point did that occur? The first time you met, or hung out? Or how about the first time you bought them something, or shared a secret? You can't really pinpoint it at one time or another. Usually you have to have know each other for some good amount of time and 'feel' it out. One day, when they meet someone, you introduce them as, "This is my friend x."

The same applies for dating relationships. It doesn't necessarily require a sit down discussion with the person, but it is a term that carries a lot of meaning and stigma, and I don't think it should be thrown around willy nilly. I would say you should have gone out a few times, and agree that your both exclusively involved.

[Haleygurl]

You probaly should ask her.. Girls like to define their relationship, besides she is probably wondering the same thing about you

[Donkey]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: