its my fault.

[barbie.]

everything really was okay untill a few years ago.
i don't remember what happened my parents fought and they were going to get a divorce and i thought it was my mom's fault all this was happening to our family so i rebelled and never show'd he any respect to her.
then she started punishing me with beatings.
she's hurt me really bad physiclly and emotionally. she kicked me slapped me beat me with a shoe thrown things at me i've bled and bruised from her.
but its my fault because im so used to not respecting her that i just don't any more.
my dad used to help me now all he cares about is making sure they don't fight. and because of that i have no one to talk to anymore.
i started cutting a few months ago because i've been so depressed about it.
btw its not physical as much anymore just mentally and emotionally she'll call me fat. she says i make the family misserable.
and more.. i just can not take it.
i don't want to kill myself sometimes i do because of family stuff. but i have got the best of friends that i usually don't see unless of school because thats also how my mom punishes me. but they keep me alive. them and my grandmother. :p but i don't know what to do to change myself so my mom likes me better.

[SneakBrain]

in order to win your mom respect you got respect her back i know moms could be annoying sometimes but try your best to not get into argument with her and if you did let her feel like she won even if she didnt. if you are truthfully in this situation i'm telling you its going to take more then you expect i know its not easy but you have to be patience a little more and then you will go to the collage and never see her again trust me you will miss her.

[spy1]

in order to win your mom respect you got respect her back i know moms could be annoying sometimes but try your best to not get into argument with her and if you did let her feel like she won even if she didnt if you are truthfully in this situation i'm telling you its going to take more then you expect i know its not easy but you have to be patience a little more and then you will go to the collage and never see her again trust me you will miss her.

that is nice of you

[sarah newman]

yeahh, you should respect your mum. Even tho you sometimes feel like youu dont care about her, youu will miss her if youu dont make a move now, and youu will love her in in the long run.
But, im on your side for this one. You shouldnt try and win your mum back. Mum's should no that teenage girls have hormones, my mum does, and the amount of times i have shouted, screamed, thrown doors in her face- its not worth counting.
She has NO FUCKING RIGHT to beat youu. end of. She could get done by the police for that.
But back to your question, just respect her, and she will respect youu. Then youu and her could have some mother and daughter time, and go out, or stay in and watch a DVD together or something.
But i understand if youu dont wanna do this, as in the end of the dayy, she is the one who was beatin g youu, and it might feel weird to try and win her back, your mum should be the one who should be worrying about winning youu back, your her daughter and she should love youu, no matter who you are, or what youu look like.
She was the one who brought you into this world x
Im always here for youu if youu need to chat x I can see how much pain your in, and it does hurt, i no that as much as youu do xx

[crims0nbl00d]

everything really was okay untill a few years ago.
i don't remember what happened my parents fought and they were going to get a divorce and i thought it was my mom's fault all this was happening to our family so i rebelled and never show'd he any respect to her.
then she started punishing me with beatings.
she's hurt me really bad physiclly and emotionally. she kicked me slapped me beat me with a shoe thrown things at me i've bled and bruised from her.
but its my fault because im so used to not respecting her that i just don't any more.
my dad used to help me now all he cares about is making sure they don't fight. and because of that i have no one to talk to anymore.
i started cutting a few months ago because i've been so depressed about it.
btw its not physical as much anymore just mentally and emotionally she'll call me fat. she says i make the family misserable.
and more.. i just can not take it.
i don't want to kill myself sometimes i do because of family stuff. but i have got the best of friends that i usually don't see unless of school because thats also how my mom punishes me. but they keep me alive. them and my grandmother. :p but i don't know what to do to change myself so my mom likes me better.

its not your fault, dont think that it is. no one should hit there kids or anything like that, its wrong and shouldn't be taken lightly. try talking to someone there is a link in my signature. cutting isnt the answer either, its very addictive, it will take you over I know from my own experience. its been 4 years and ive tried everything to stop im finally on my way to stopping. the site in my signature can help you out with both the cutting and abuse so if you want talk to them.
contact me anytime if you need to talk all my information is on my profile

[Kaius]

in order to win your mom respect you got respect her back i know moms could be annoying sometimes but try your best to not get into argument with her and if you did let her feel like she won even if she didnt if you are truthfully in this situation i'm telling you its going to take more then you expect i know its not easy but you have to be patience a little more and then you will go to the collage and never see her again trust me you will miss her.

Just because she didn't respect her mom doesn't mean it gives her mother the right to abuse her like this. Every teenager rebels at some point, but does every other parent do that?. Arianna, none of this is your fault. What your mother doing is wrong, and is in no way deserved. When you're at school, is there a counsellor you may be able to go to for support? And also your Grandmother, you mentioned she was a safety point for you, does she know about this? If you ever need to talk you know you can come find me at any point through PM or the email address in my signature.

[SneakBrain]

Just because she didn't respect her mom doesn't mean it gives her mother the right to abuse her like this. Every teenager rebels at some point, but does every other parent do that?. Arianna, none of this is your fault. What your mother doing is wrong, and is in no way deserved. When you're at school, is there a counsellor you may be able to go to for support? And also your Grandmother, you mentioned she was a safety point for you, does she know about this? If you ever need to talk you know you can come find me at any point through PM or the email address in my signature.

I know but I didnt give her mum the green light to abuse her, spicily in this age and lets not forgot that she cant fight back and i'm really angry at your mom but i dont think you should report her for the police that's just dont seem smart to put your mom behind the jails and yes, a counselor would be a great idea maybe they can put you both at the same room to talk and see what is the solution and can make you both happy and satisfy.