Abuse?

[Chris_Likes_Drums]

Right, my friend I think is being kind of abuse by her BF, but she doesnt think so, so I thought I'd ask up here.

Her Boyfriend decided the other day, or week or whatever, that he was gonna give her some rules.

1)She isnt aloud to meet with ANY lad unless there is another person with her so if anything happens he can know about it.

and

2) She isnt aloud any photos of her with other lads unless there is other people in the photo too.

I would care so much about all this exept for a few things like she is my best friend, and we dont meet up much, and now we cant as much, and when we meet we talk about really personal stuff like my cuts.. but I cant if there has to be other people I cant talk as openly about it all...

Is it abuse? cause he is controlling her with who she can/cant meet up with or have photos with.
Please get back to me rather sharpish. :)

[BeautifulDisaster]

It is very controlling & dominating.

I'd say he's bad for her & to find someone else, or get him help at least with his paranoia.

[Chris_Likes_Drums]

Yeah, well he gets jelous really easily.. which can be seen as loviong her, but i thiknk he's taking it too far.
I mean, he was jelous of my when I was with her.. even when I had a gf :S

[BeautifulDisaster]

Then I'd suggest he sees a mental health professional for help.

[Chris_Likes_Drums]

But, I mean other day, we were going to meet up, cause we were gointg to get rid of blades, and he wont let her.. cause aparently we've been "flirting.." but We only really talk about music and cutting... so in what way is that flirting?!

and he aparently hates me.. even tho only seen eachother once.. and talked three times... wierd or what?!

[BeautifulDisaster]

Like I said, I'd suggest he sees someone about his problems.

[TheSnowCat]

Sounds VERY controlling to me. Generally, when a relationship starts out like that.... it only gets worse with time. It sounds to me like your friend really needs to take some time to think things through.... does she really want to be with someone who treats her like that?