Tired of girl playing games

[Trackstar29]

Ok so since ive got out of school ive been with like 3 girls, all three of them didnt work out. Im just so pissed off because every girl doesnt realize when they have the perfect guy right infront of them (me lol). Like all i do is treat them the best i can, do the most i can for them and they all say " aww your so sweet" but end up saying "i just wana be friends" >.<

[Mariiniitahh]

haha maybe dahsz dah problem... yuhh waii 2 sweet!! mahh ex boyfrnd wasz lyk daht 2 buht yuhh quysz hav 2 leht the sweet thinqq qo once in a while. itsz sexy wen quysz act bad!!:yes: hehe hope dhisz helpsz :)

[Iron Man]

Are you in High school or Junior High School? Because if that is the case, relationships don`t mean jack shit in the real world. It is basically just another word for "really good friends". They just know what path their heart is taking them. You will find someone later in life will look at the qualities rather than a good social time.

[Art_dude]

that's your problem: being a sweet decent guy lol. I'm in a similar situation myself, and in my years of being dealt the 'friend card' I know from experience that girls want to be treated like shit. Sure they want you to be the nice guy, but only at the right moments - the rest of the time they want to you to be the bad boy. My advice? Find someone who can appreciate you for the gentleman you are. Not patient enough? turn down the classy dial.

[Heretic]

Alex nailed it. Almost all girls dig the bad boy but always say they want a sweet guy. It's not a total lie, it's just they're all batshit insane and don't realize they don't want the hardcore badass that's gonna dump them on the street. In all reality they want a balance, what balnce that is and when we're supposed to be sweet or assholes beats the shit outta me. Good luck.

[steve1234]

Girls are programmed to like the 'bad boys' for some reason. Unfortunatly, It takes them a long time to use their brains and realise that bad boys are not ideal partners.

[Aspiringanonymous]

Girls are programmed to like the 'bad boys' for some reason. Unfortunatly, It takes them a long time to use their brains and realise that bad boys are not ideal partners.
Because it's entertaining, and as young people, that's what dating is for most - an opportunity for fun and mental stimulation. 'Nice guys' are boring and predicable, as interacting with them won't offer much more besides the 'you're so sweet' experience. We see less of the phenomenon occurring among older age groups, who are ready for serious commitment as opposed to casual entertainment.

It just means that you're in the minority and it might take longer to find someone who is compatible. But patience is worthwhile.

[venom832]

Ok so since ive got out of school ive been with like 3 girls, all three of them didnt work out. Im just so pissed off because every girl doesnt realize when they have the perfect guy right infront of them (me lol). Like all i do is treat them the best i can, do the most i can for them and they all say " aww your so sweet" but end up saying "i just wana be friends" >.<

yea i feel you on that. Seems like girls these days just dont want a serious thing. Be single for a while but dont change how u are for sum girl. Trust, its not worth it

[Brantley]

One day you'll find the person you need.

[tomboysk8r1314]

You'll find someone who loves who you are so dont change anything! My ex was a super sweet guy and well i love it when guys are like that. Sure i think bad boys are sexxi and shit but well yeah.

Id give anything for a serious relationship, but sometimes you just need to pick carefully to make sure both of you are ready for that commitment.

Best of luck! :D

[usernamelol]

if you give them everything and that doesn't work, try reeling it back. do nice things, not all the time, but only a few times. treat them well, but don't crowd them and stuff. be a little distant, but not too distant. but being single is pretty awesome lol

[Syvelocin]

Girls are programmed to like the 'bad boys' for some reason. Unfortunatly, It takes them a long time to use their brains and realise that bad boys are not ideal partners.

Oh, I beg to differ ^.^
For the most part, they're not ideal for girls, if they're purely bad boys. I've had incredibly sweet guys, egotistical guys, and one "bad boy." Guess which type I'm engaged to and have been with for three years? :P

Girls are difficult. Guys say that, and I will even say that (though, mind you, guys are equally as difficult. Just in different ways). Most teenage girls won't wake up from their fantasies for a while. Stay a sweet guy, nothing is sexier (to me, at least) than a guy who is truly himself, and also because eventually, girls will realize either they can't get a bad boy, or that they break their hearts. It's the guy that treats her like a queen with only his love (though not to the point where it's... clingy) that gets a long-term relationship in the end.