soo... help?

[suprise]

there's this girl that i have been into for a loong time... but i just dont know how to tell her! any suggestions? I dont want to look like a fool... I've known her for a loong time... like since she was born... (2 months after me) anyways... so i just really want to try and get connected with her... like, more than we are now... HELP!! PLEASE!!

THANKS ALOT!!

[saintweasel]

I personally believe if the girl is interested in you, there's no wrong way to do it.

So let me ask, do you think she's interested in you at all?
Some girls give no queues at all, and others do. You just need to know how to look and where to look... but since you're asking how you should confront her about your feelings as you seem to be intent on doing so, I suggest being as natural as possible---

They all say that it's best to do it in person since it's the most "genuine" but if you know her that well there's no harm in doing it electronically or on the phone either (unless she has strange notions about these things iunno).

But honestly, there's 0 way of looking like a fool in front of a girl you've known for that long! A girls' image of dudes are USUALLY --assuming they're not shallow-- based on how you are to her on a regular basis and not just one incident.

If she ends up rejecting you, I doubt your friendship will be ruined, even if you make yourself look bad...

Then again acting as naturally as possible would help. People say to practice it to yourself a bit? I say screw that lol.

[suprise]

well, iunno.... she kinda drops hints... i think... but if they are hints... they are very small... like almost a needle in a haystack.... ish type....

I find it hard to do it naturally, because i am a shy guy... (lol, that rhymed!)

but, we are supposed to hang out somtimes this summer... i "promised" to buy her a cold drink somewheres... so i will do that...

I'd rather tell her in person... just because that's my views on life... its better to do it in person... :P

and, i guess... i am afraid to be rejected... which is why i never asked anyone if they liked me before, or that type of thing.... and also, in the past i have told people who i like, and it spread like a bird spreads its wings.... FAST!... so i am just nervous in that general area....

[john12344]

He who dares wins. Chances are she wont ask u out so its up 2 u 2 ask her. if she says no well at least you will know. Go 4 it.

[suprise]

well, i think i'mma do it up sometime soon... i kind of want to spend alot of time with her this summer if we are gonna date... so i will let'cha's know how it turns out.. i guess.... if i can muster the courage to talk to her about it... how would i get on the subject of it though?