Taking it further...

[cooldude123]

Hi :) i'll just get to the point.

basically, the relationship im in is perfect, and everything is going fine. anyway, recently i have been having thoughts about taking it further to the 'physical' stage. it all started with a really realistic dream i had and that made me think the moment is right. however, is it wrong to be thinking this at 14? when i say physical, i dont mean sex, but just a really close relationship if you know what i mean... if you think its right to be thinking all of this, what do you think i should do?

my mind is all over the shop right now, and thoughts are buzzing in my head, so that is why i decided to ask here... thanks :)

[Rutherford The Brave]

Then hint that you'd like to head in the direction, maybe hold your partner's hand, hug them, sit close to them. All relationships start like this in a way.

[nick]

Well just remember that just because you had a dream and may feel ready for the next stage that doesnt necessary follow that your gf/bf feels the same. So yes its ok to try to take things forwards but proceed with caution and make sure its something that you both are comfortable with.

[cooldude123]

Then hint that you'd like to head in the direction, maybe hold your partner's hand, hug them, sit close to them. All relationships start like this in a way.

We already do that, if you know what i mean. i mean the next step after all of that if you get what i mean. and yes, i will only do what my gf is comfortable with...

[Rutherford The Brave]

We already do that, if you know what i mean. i mean the next step after all of that if you get what i mean. and yes, i will only do what my gf is comfortable with...

again you got to hint towards it.