Awkward friend

[Mattyboy2]

Hey. So a couple days ago my friend came over for a sleepover and I basically told him I was gay.
I'm pretty sure he didn't like it and I ended up walking off. But when I came back I caught him j/o to gay porn...

What does this mean!? He acted really disgusted when I told him I was gay, but doesn't mind spewing his junk over a Justin Beiber look-alike? WTF?

If you want more context and stuff check out my blog: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/blog.php?b=3795

[Scarface]

Maybe you could have taken the way he said it wrong. Even though he said that he could have meant it as a surprise. I'm gay and I have had people tell me straight up to my face that i wasn't like it was a phase. (I know it's not) Hey maybe he's just curious. You said in your blog that you have done different things with him. I don't think the relationship was severed, but just to be safe give it a couple days and then give him a call and talk to him. If he brings it up with you then you can both discuss it together. Not over a game.

[Mattyboy2]

Thanks i'll try that, i just feel so confuesd. He looked deadly serious with the repulsion of it :(
I spose i can just hope that he adjusts eventually?

[GeneralCrash70]

I could very well have made him horny, and he could have just been embarassed about it and went somewhere private to Jack off...

[jimmycouch14]

Ya know, most kids at 14 feel really strange about having gay feelings and the possibility that they might be gay. I think that is why he acted strange towards you. Give it a few days and talk it over with him. Tell him that no matter what your individual feelings are that you want to be friends. I’ll bet he will be okay and have a really good talk with you.

[hrecknoall]

Maybe you should talk to him about in a non-sleepover setting. LIke know he was going to be spending the night with you could be a little scary for him...talk to him at lucnh or when you're hanging out.

[suprise]

yeah, i am thinken, you could probably talk to him about it...

[Jamarama]

At your age, some guys get scared that they might be gay and freak out if they find out their friend is (which shows they're not confident with their sexuality :P)

Give him time, like a few days, then approach him again and talk it over with him calmly. I bet his reaction will be different after he's thought about it and calmed down, compared to his heat-of-the-moment snap judgement.

[cev199316]

At your age, some guys get scared that they might be gay and freak out if they find out their friend is (which shows they're not confident with their sexuality :P)

Give him time, like a few days, then approach him again and talk it over with him calmly. I bet his reaction will be different after he's thought about it and calmed down, compared to his heat-of-the-moment snap judgement.

Yep this is good advice ^

[swimmerjeff]

Based on your context in the blog, I think his "WHATT" might've been surprise (probably in a good way). The fact that he jerked to gay porn after suggests he fancies guys too.

[GamerCody]

If he doesn't accept you for who you are he isn't a real friend and you don't need him. If he is a true friend he won't care that you are gay or not. If he can't accept you then get rid of him, you don't need him.

[usernamelol]

If he doesn't accept you for who you are he isn't a real friend and you don't need him. If he is a true friend he won't care that you are gay or not. If he can't accept you then get rid of him, you don't need him.

^i agree, but it seems he's might be in the same boat you are, just not as confident as you were to tell anyone.

[disassociation2016]

There's a chance he was confused and surprised, as you said he masturbated to guys afterwards may have been a sign that he accepts you, but he can't bring himself to tell you that he feels the same or what he feels.