Have you been given 'the talk' yet?

[ScotsGirl]

I was just wondering if your parents had given you 'the talk' yet. If so, how did it go and do you think it has helped? If not, are you expecting it sometime soon?

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[WelshLad]

Luckily i avoided it by telling them that i've been taught everything in pse classes (sex ed)

[Anonymous]

luckily, they dun know i can cum yet, they did teach me "how babies are made"

[ScotsGirl]

How did they start a conversation like that?^^ (incase your wondering, ive never been given 'the talk' but if im ever a mum, im gonna try and be open about everything.). I think it would have been better, even if my mum had just tried.

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[Anonymous]

i asked my mom one night and she gave me a book and i read it all, and since then ive been a bit of a pervert :oops:

[Ravenous]

Ive never had the talk, because my parents sorta know i havent really properly hit puberty yet. Im not sure if i will get it, I doubt it.

[WelshLad]

the thought of the talk makes my skin crawl arghhh

[serial-thrilla]

no not really if i had a question id just ask the folks at vt

[WelshLad]

i think we all would

[ScotsGirl]

:D . That sounds like my dad^^. I remember a few years ago my dad came into my room and started by saying "Now i know you and i dont really talk...." So i was thinking to myself oh god i wish it was my mum who was telling me this. However, he then proceeded to tell me how a guy at his work had been accused of "picking up a hooker when he didn't actually do it"...he then moved on to someone else at work being called a slut...i sat there uncomfortably thinking 'and this has what to do with me?.....i think the closest he came to anything remotely related to sex and me was when he was saying about calling this person a slut he said "erm yes, now i know that you dont sleep around like so-and-so". Thanks dad! :roll: .
Thats as far as my 'talk' went.

xxx

[WelshLad]

lol interesting. he was probably as nervous as you.
i dnt think parents like giving the talk as much as the kid getting it.

[live2game]

Don't worry. I inatiated it. My dad was very open and even though I was 12 almost 13 he went all the way to sex and masturbation (not telling me how to do it but just what it is). I am glad to have a dad that is open.

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

im embarassed to talk to my parents about such matters. when i was younger my dad kept trying to talk with me and i kept rejecting it cuz i was embarassed. eventually he just gave up lol

[Anonymous]

My dad tried to force it on me one time, but I was like 10 and just sat there holding my ears shut and going..."Lalalalalaalalalalala!" I didn't pay attention, happy I didn't. It's funny though, because he thinks I know NOTHING, yet I am scamming $25 off him a week.

[Anonymous]

dude, LOL! are you using his credit card for a pay site?

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

thtas not really somehting to be proud about

[ScotsGirl]

Don't worry. I inatiated it. My dad was very open and even though I was 12 almost 13 he went all the way to sex and masturbation (not telling me how to do it but just what it is). I am glad to have a dad that is open.

Aww :( , i wish i could talk to my mum like that. I mean, im not asking for parents like Jim from American Pie hahaha! Now THAT would be embarassing!
:lol:

xxx

[Anonymous]

thtas not really somehting to be proud about

Not really, but my dad pisses me off and makes me pay for everything, so I take money and use it for what they don't konw about. They give me the money willingly, just don't know what I'm using it on.

-Ekia

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

ohhhh ok i c thats better :)

[aniboy12000]

yeah my parents havnt given me the "talk" yet....all they did was said hey read these books...tells you everything you need to noe...i didnt read them though...but the good old internet helped me learn

[ScotsGirl]

OMG, i totally thought that everyone elses parents would give them the talk. I thought i was just about the only one who didn't get.
Thanks everyone for sharing :D .
My mum didn't even give me any books about it, she really doesn't have the slightest clue about what i know...i wonder if she worries about me not knowing things. I mean does she not see on the news about how the UK has like the highest teenage pregnancy rate in Europe or something?! Theres a chance my mum is in denial, i think. :? .

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[<-Dying_to_Live->]

lol. when i had a girl friend a year ago her mom thought we were doing stuff so she gave her birth control pills! lol

[ScotsGirl]

Hehe! I suppose, better to be safe than sorry :D .
Did her mum speak to her about it...or did she just kinda take her to get them? Over here, you dont even have to tell your parents if you dont want to....even if your under 16. As long as the doctor thinks you understand and stuff.

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[Ravenous]

Cosmos you said you were gay?!?

[Julio caesar shavez the 4]

i havnt gotten the talk yet i asked my mom about the birds and beez (LOL) and she had no clue what i was talking about i had to break it down for her

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

yes tim i had a gf a while ago before i.... how should i say this: accepted myself i guess

[bobOmatic]

i got the talk in 5th grade by htese docter people and ever sence i have been kinda a perv :oops:

[Anonymous]

ive been a bit of a sex perv sinc ei learned bout sex too, its odd, but oh well, not a moment too soon, cuz they gave me the book in early 4th grade. now i like naked chicks! :banana:

[AC.wAkeBoArDin.06]

my dad goes overboard.. he also tells me not to have sex with my sister like once a month...like wow

[nwshc]

With your sister?? Now y would he say that? Doesnt want you trying it out on her i guess.

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

wow your dads so weird

[Julio caesar shavez the 4]

ya he is

[Anonymous]

paranoid............

[TurtleMan]

I didn't get the talk but my dad and mom know I know about sex, not so much about mastaurbation. Ever since I learned I've been a bit og a perve and a HUGE flirt(according to my friends). I've been caught looking at this girls ass on regular bases. It's like it's metal and my eyes are magnets. Sorry if this offends some girls but.. I had SUCH a sexy, hott, wet dream about her. HOLY SHIT.. I woke up and I had the hugest smile on my face I've ever seen on ANYONE.. I looked demented..

[bobOmatic]

ive been a bit of a sex perv sinc ei learned bout sex too, its odd, but oh well, not a moment too soon, cuz they gave me the book in early 4th grade. now i like naked chicks! :banana:

same here but it was in 5th grade and i luv nakid chicks

[Anonymous]

ive never had a wet dream, but if my mum finds a cum stain ill say i did

[DouggyO.o]

my dad loged on vt by accadent and read my posts and i think he knows i maturbate but i dont know how to ask him if he does, any suggestions

[Anonymous]

go hide in a dark hole and pray for mercy

[DouggyO.o]

lol i mean really

[98989]

lol ur dad read ur posts oh man! ahahahahaha! ur one sorry bastard if ive ever seen one LMAO! im so glad im not u ahahahahah! ahahahah! lol i cat stop laughin ahahahahhaahha!!!!!!!!! :twisted:

[X360]

nope

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

never let them give it to me

[Kev*]

no not really if i had a question id just ask the folks at vt

thats y im here n also jus 2 help ppl in need

[Rowan1011]

Man I looked at porn since I was 8.. I was hanging out with my brother he was 11 almost 12 and his friend was 13... And we watched it on his satelite dish(the 13year old friend) my bro let me watch to too, he was a pretty cool bother then.. Now he treats me like his child, rather than an equal... Bleh, oh well. But yeah, ever since that day when I was eight, I've watched pr0n with my friend(the one who was playing that girl who had a bf)..

XD I still remember, I was like 'I gotta tell my mom about this.. I feel bad' then he freaked out at me because it was at his house... We were just curious and were attracted to it, and I remember that day we were stayed up 'till 4am looking for 'vagina' to see what it looked like because on all the porn we saw you saw none.. Then we went to channel 45, the french channel.. And needless to say, the french love their pussy :mrgreen: ...

Ever since then, me and my buddy have been pervs D:.. And only he has gotten sexual contact so far.. Damn him and his silver tongue.. He says the corniest things to them and they fall for it, makes me sick, 'cause he like tries to teach me and I don't want to learn because I don't play...

Anyways, I'll never get the talk. For one, they know I know, secondly, my dad found porn in his history that he didn't go on and I got accused and admited, he wasn't angry though. He just said, there's some sites like that, that give you spyware and that you should find safer sites rofl... He's cool with priviliges and shit like that, but he can be an asshole, specially if he's drunk.. I need therapy :lol:

I think I'd feel uncomfortable getting the talk from one of my parents and just avoid it, like say I'm going out or leave the room or something XD...

[AC.wAkeBoArDin.06]

i havent let my parents give me the talk haha

[Kev*]

id hate to have the talk i wud b so embarresed

[teencrazykid]

All my mom told me is that boys are different than girls, to keep my dick in my pants (she said it like that...eeew) and she told me not to ever bring a pregnant girl to the house. I've learned some shit here on vt, some on school and on the internet. I looked at porn when I was 12 with my friend, who was 11. It was his dad's playboys. Then...eeew....we saw a picture of his mom and dad, who took a picture of themselves (fucking) and glued it halfway through the book...eeew....it was NASTY! But my mom told me these things at 10 and it was weird....

[nullandvoid123]

ya i can guarentee that my parents already know that i know what sex is. i doubt ill ever get "the talk" now that i'm already 14. especially since they are always asking me if i look at porn online.... i dont think they'd ask that if they thought i didnt know what sex was.

[Maestro]

yeah i've had it.

i was 11 and it was actually my uncle and not my parents. he talked about voice cracking, growth spurts, hair, and erections. But he didn't touch on the subject of ejaculation. which is why i was totally freaked out by the white stuff coming out of my dick the following year!

i'm really close with my uncle so it was easier to talk to him about that stuff than to my dad. if it was my dad i'd be really embarrassed!