should i make a move?

[jessisconfused]

so my best friend and i are really close, we've been best friends forever and i love her but as just friends. a few months ago we made out when we were drunk and i really liked it. she brings it up sometimes and we laugh about it and last night she asked me if i liked kissing girls and i said that it was just the same as kissing guys. the thing is i've hooked up with a girl before like kissing and touching each others clits and it feels so good. i've been really horny lately and were both single so would it be weird if i asked her to hook up? i just want to be friends but i wanna have fun. and also would it make our friendship weird if we did this a few times?

[sildavin]

Its easier to laugh at life, when you're drunk and not in your normal state of mind. I wouldnt call it weird to ask her to hook up with you, but it would be a very awkward conversation to start.

As far as your friendship goes, keep in mind that sex can mess up friendship really easily, a number of things could go, terribly, terribly wrong. She could be weirded out just by you asking her, which would make her avoid you.

Or the act in of itself could make it hard for her to face you, especially if she regrets it.

Make sure that, that is a risk you are willing to take. it IS possible for you both to have a great time, and an awesome friendship afterwords,but its also possible, that she'll never speak to you again.

[hrecknoall]

hmm idk, like you have to really think through everything that could go wrong, then see if it's worth it. Make sure you're ok with possibly losing the friendship if it goes wrong or gets too deep or something., other than that have fun!

[thepieman]

As the other guys have said really, is it worth the risk of losing a good friendship? You may not be certain if she's bi or lesbian or straight, and even if she is it may be awkward if you are good mates. I have a very good mate who's also bi, we've flirted and messed around when drunk but we love each other like brothers and wouldn't dream of taking it further. So it's up to you, but just be aware that there are risks.

[Soccerkix]

be careful because it might not be worth losing a friend

[saintweasel]

Personally, I don't think it's the best of ideas to hook up simply because you're horny and have engaged intimately while drunk in the past. By no means would it be a weird thing to ask from a general standpoint but keep in mind, as mentioned by another user, she may not be interested in girls. You are also a really close friend, and unless you consider "hooking up" with a person you would continue friendship with NOT at all weird (and is furthermore worthy of a few nostalgic chuckles) I doubt you should go for it for the reasons you've mentioned.

Horniness sort of passes with time, and considering you are asking about this in the first place, it appears that making your friendship suddenly awkward would be difficult to forget.