Exception(would appreciate if you at least read it)

[MacMilker]

Okay so I don't really know where to start even tho its a pretty simple topic.. So I guess Ill just dive right in.. But before I do start I would like it if you don't make assumptions because I just dont need this floating around and him finding out..Unless you are reading it now o.o

Theres this guy who I've know for..Jeez, a year? Or probably more. On here, VT. Ive told him I liked his he was 'Flattered' But being flattered, for me really isn't enough. An 'Oh I feel the same way' or a ' I love you!' would of been nice haha..Something around there. He was rarely on and seemed to be directing his attention towards other people, and I saw one of his posts and it was about him really liking someone.. And of course, I got my hopes up, I just had to.. I thought about it and thought about it and I couldn't come to any other conclusion that it had to be me. Well it turned out to be.. one of my close friends on here as well. Of course.. And ironically the person I'd LEAST expect.. I wish I could of warned him because in the end he only got his heart broken by him.

Anyways he left because of something that bothered him, and came back recently. Well he has new pics, and hes just the cutest thing I've ever seen, and it made me remember how much I liked him..And its all coming back of course. I sent him some visitor messages, commented on stuff and realized..What if hes still..Just not interested, or was he ever interested?

I'm really confused and I really want someone to talk to about this, because my in real life friend can't really relate to this, so I think someone from VT would be nice. I basically want to know if I should try and talk to him again and figure some things out or if I should just give up and not say a word. I mean in the end of the day I guess it's like totally possible I can just not be his type, whatsoever..But maybe things have changed.

Idk, thanks for your time. Hopefully you won't just blow this off and click away, you'll give me some advice or at least say something =P

Byeee, xoxox :3

[Brighter.Tomorrow]

Ugh, I know what it's like to chase after someone, it can be painful.
I truly don't advise dating on the internet, it's..hurtful. My exgirlfriend Nicole, moved to Cali when I was about 13, we dated over the phone and internet after that...It was painful not being able to really touch her and kiss her.
Anyway.
Sometimes, you shouldn't fall over someone that is walking away from you, because they won't catch you. If you think the person is honest, ask them straight out.
Sometimes, being forward is best. =3

[hrecknoall]

wow, umm well I'm open to talk whenever, if you need it.
But i'd say you know when ever you put your heart on the line, you risk getting it broken! But be strong, just be his friend right now, maybe on day he'll come around, you never...be as positive as can be!

[MacMilker]

Aww thanks guys. I love your help as always(:

[Joshhh]

You could at least talk to him... in the end its your choice
he might like you, he might not u wont know intil u try.....

better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all.....

[CaptainObvious]

The general advice I have is as follows: you need to not get so attached. I know it's hard when you're looking for someone and you find a person you are very attracted to, but if that person doesn't feel the same way about you there's really nothing you can do. And in this case, that seems to be true. It can really be heartbreaking continuing to pursue someone who doesn't reciprocate; I'd recommend, as hard as it may be, that you try to get over him. This is all doubly true over the Internet. For a person to have their "heart broken" over the Internet (though I know you weren't referring to yourself with that quote) by someone not wanting to edate them reflects something that's missing, and I don't believe that something is generally best replaced by an online bf/gf.

Now, I also have some more specific advice because despite your being vague, it's fairly obvious who you're talking about. That advice, I will PM to you.

[Dog Desab]

you might know him on vt and infatuated by his looks but dont get attached to someone you've never really met. dating over the internet isn't as good meeting someone in real life and going through the stages of friendship to real love. and if you still want to find out about his feelings just ask that wouldnt hurt, would it?