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thepieman
July 5th, 2010, 02:58 PM
OK, so I think I fell a little bit in love today. Maybe not love, but you know what I mean.

I've finished school for 2 weeks now, but I still have to go in for a few afternoons in a week for band rehearsals. Today I went in as normal, and I went in one of the music classrooms to get my saxophone. In the class there was this guy. He had a visitor badge on, and I think he was like a teaching assistant type guy. But he looked about my age, so maybe he's on work experience? Anyway, this guy was quite simply stunning - completely my type. He was a bit smaller than me (as are most people), slim, short blond-ish hair styled with gel and with a gorgeous face.

I couldn't stop looking at him, and I think I may have been quite obvious with this. Usually, that spells disaster. There are very few LGBT people in my school, and so I don't often spend my time staring at guys. But this guy didn't look bothered. Far from it, in fact. He was looking at me too. He kept trying not to, as I was, but our eyes kept meeting a few times.

So I'm completely stumped. This doesn't happen to me, I'm useless around people I like, and I'm not that good looking, so I was surprised at my chances that a guy so stunning would be interested in me. So I don't know what I should do. Have I got a chance realistically? He may not even be gay, though he did look a little interested. I just can't see myself being with a guy so nice. What should I do?

Sorry it's so long, but I can't stop thinking about this guy. :wub:

gooog34
July 5th, 2010, 08:51 PM
You'll never know if you don't give it a try. Try talking to him a bit more and introduce yourself. If he's a visitor he might have some questions so try to be friendly :) Then go from there and maybe you can determine more. Keep us posted!

billium183
July 5th, 2010, 09:01 PM
i agree with other guy..go for it...dont make it TOO obvious ur interested..but if hes interested..and you hint, he shud know

thepieman
July 6th, 2010, 05:30 PM
Thanks for that. I'm back in tomorrow, so I really hope I see him and start a conversation with him, just to get to know him would be a start (I'm not just going to go up to him and declare my love for him :P). I'll let you know how it goes.

SneakBrain
July 6th, 2010, 05:36 PM
I had a similar thing in starring at guys but I try to hide my feeling to them and show that I'm emotionless to them, but I really like some of them.

hrecknoall
July 7th, 2010, 12:30 AM
Agree with the above! Go for it! Get to know him first, talk to him, etc

thepieman
July 7th, 2010, 11:27 AM
OK, so today was a... SUCCESS!

Well, I've not told him I'm interested and he's not done the same. But we talked for 20 minutes non stop - not bad for a first ever conversation. I know a lot about him, his hobbies, favourite music, interests etc etc and most importantly his name :P

I've got a good feeling about this, he seems a really great guy and I just kept getting these signs that maybe he's first gay and secondly he's possibly interested. But let's not be hasty.

It's a step forward, and I'll see him again possibly by the end of the week, when he finishes work experience. So far so good :D

confusedboy
July 8th, 2010, 12:33 PM
Aww that's great!!! :D I'm happy for you! Please keep telling us how it goes.

thepieman
July 8th, 2010, 04:20 PM
Just an update.

Saw him again today, but by accident this time. Talked to him for about 20 minutes again about random stuff, mostly Big Brother :P

I think things are going well, he said hi to me before I did, so he's noticing me, which is nice. I've got some contact details and stuff, and we'll probably stay in touch after he's done his work experience, so fingers crossed. :D