Long Distance

[DrWho]

Ok so there's this girl who I like. The only problem is she doesn't live where I do and I only get to see her once a year for like 3 days. She told me that she likes me too. The another problem is she kinda likes this other guy and he does live close to her. I don't know weather to try and win her over or just hope things eventually fall into place.

[Daniel_]

It kinda depends. Long distant relationships, according to statistics, do not usually work out. She would probably fall for the guy she can see more often, the one who will hold her in his arms at every given chance, who is there to hang out with, to talk with in person, and so on. To be completely honest, if I were you, I'd tell her that you shouldn't have that kind of a relationship, yet don't let her go. Be friends, talk, who knows, perhaps your paths will bring you two closer together someday.

[DrWho]

K Thanks That Is What I Was Thinking But I Didn't Know If It Was The Right Choice

[Antares]

Let things fall into place because having a long distance relationship will be really hard.
Also, if you wont be able to be there to win her over, it will end up in a big stressful goose chase.

If you are meant to get together, it will probably find some way of happen :P

[JaGo]

If you really like her and she likes you back, then take a chance on it! I've had a long distance relationship with someone that was 3 states away when I was younger, and it was awesome while it lasted.

In the end it really depends how much you like her. If you're willing to not be able to see/hold hands/touch her at all and still have a relationship, then it shows you really care about her, and I would go for it.

[DrWho]

Thanks Cause She Lives in The Same State Just Not Close. I Talk To Her Like Every Day And It Just Kills Me Because I've Never Felt This Way About Someone

[Kaius]

Well, that's not strictly true. If you're both committed to the relationship, although it's long distance you should be able to make it. But again, there is the possibility that she may end up going to the other guy whether she's with you or not, but really thats up to you to decide whether thats likely because tbh we have no idea what this girl is like. Maybe, the other guy may not even like her like that. I'd say try it, its better to do that than leave it and stay wondering what could've happened for the rest of your life.

[john12344]

right. First all u can do is be her friend coz say she said she liked u an wanted 2 date u. Does that mean she cant have a relationship with anyone else ? Do u think she should become a nun an just wait around for the 3 days a year u c her ? Im not trying to b rude coz im in d same boat as u. But who knows maybe in a few years u might move closer but until then if u really care 4 her let her live her life.