IS he my best friend???

[Kuervo]

so me and my "best friend" have been friends since freshman yr. (2yrs now) in the beginning of summer last yr we had a big fight, he told me something tht i shudnt have told no one, obviously i nvr told no one but he thinks i did. so after like 3 months of not talking, we kinda made up and became friends, but not best friends yet.

sophomore yr wasnt tht bad with him. we were better friends this yr thn the last. near the end of the yr, he started to like some girl, i had my gf at tht time. (i hung out with the friends he had because i hung around him, sometimes.) so he liked this girl we both hung around with. he started thinking tht i started to like her too cuz i hung around with her a lot too, but thts not the case. due to his misunderstanding, again, we didnt talk to each other for a few weeks, until like the World Fifa cup started.

these few weeks have bn rough for me. wen we started talking again, we were like before. but thn, fifa was on, and we were going for different teams. he "didnt know" tht i didnt go for the same teams he did. so now hes calling me a traitor just cuz i dont go for the same teams. we still talk like before, but now hes like insulting me even more. i tried to help a friend tht was in need and he was saying tht i was bad at helping or giving advice, which made me mad.

hopefully iv said enough info...wud u consider him to actually be a "best friend"????:confused::confused::confused:

[soccer8]

not really he seems kinda "rude" i dont know how to put it in terms you could understand sorry i use way too complicated words but just because your going for a different team doesnt make you a traitor its your choice who to go for i would consider him to be a bit of a friend but not really

[Kuervo]

lets say hes a type of guy thts tough, muscular, with humor, talks alot, hes always asking questions, likes using spanish swear words, and he thinks hes always right..........forgot to mention, u dont wanna get him mad

[soccer8]

oh i get that as his personality but still to act like towards you he either doesnt realize hes doing it or hes just doing it carelessly try talking to him about it and if you tell him the truth on all those things he accused you of then if he is your "best friend" then he should understand and believe you

[Maverick]

That's not a best friend at all. I would ditch him and hang with better friends.

[Kuervo]

hes not the type of guy tht, u can talk to about ur feelings, he wud just call u gay. remembering now, we made a bet, i bet if i cud french kiss my gf, he wudnt have to punch me, of course i did kiss her, but he didnt believe me, he wanted "proof" i know wtf.

[soccer8]

"he wouldnt have to punch you" now really still i know people of every type of personality i know hes not the kind of guy you can talk to about feelings but what you do do is you go up to him and tell him your tired of his "games" (being nice here) and your done and if he is really your friend then hell understand and stop if not then you really need to find better friends

[Dog Desab]

tough break he sounds more like the distant type of friend someone you get along witg but really not much in common i have a ton of those types of friends.. but it sounds like you 2 arent as good of friends anymore stop talking to him for awhile and hang out with people who get you more... also it sounds somewhat like jealousy he has for you and holds it against ignore his comments and act like hes nobody important if he makes an ass of himself by being ignorant... im starting to get angry just thinking about this guy!!!!:mad:

[Shadowhunter]

man you are having a rough time with this, but by the way it sounds I agree with everyone else he doesnt really sound like a good friend. I think you should probably just keep a distance from him and talk to people who are actually nice to you and stuff.