Advice Please

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

im not really sad :D.. im just bit confused... ok.. theres this girl who i fancy ye.. iv been out with her before but she dumped me cuz i was unpopular when we went out but whatever.. we really close now and well we flirt with each other and well i dont wanna ask her out in case she dotn feel the same way and our friendship stops cuz il get shy but whatev.. what should i do?.. ty :)..

[Hot Fudge]

That is a question with an answer you have just explained. I no myself how hard that can be, ias in a similar situation where i had been rejected by this girl and six months lata wen she was with a frend of mine, we became rely close and we were talkin and she sed she had got som1 new into her head and i said d u mind if i gues who it is, so i said me and she sed yea. So wat im sayin is do it casual.
Now im back in ur position again except this time its with a guy who i have been very close friends with for nearly a year now and i have deeper feelings for him and i want to be with him but im only 90% sure he feels the same and i am not prepared to risk what i have with him. When we look into each oters eyes it is like we are locked together and for me it is like we r the only 2ppl there and he keeps foning me and i flirt with him a bit (but its only borderline if u get me), i try and drop hints for him to make a move, like holding onto his hips when i need to squeze past him or when i tap him on the shoulder i stroke my hand off him down his back, when i wanted him to come on a ride with me i gently grabbed his hand and pulled him towards me(dint work coz he was too scared) but all those physical contact things i do, he just doesnt complain or even flinch, then again he shows no enjoyment or want for anymore. I think i might love him

anyway sorry bout my ramble, i think what you need to do is a bit of risk assesment ie think about whether its worth risk or not and if it isnt then you need damage limitation, ie when ur telling her dont give away too much on how u feel, be brief and vague incase she ses no, to save u the embarasment

goodnight

[Hot Fudge]

Yes i see what your saying, it sounds that way but we dont know if thats the only reason he was dropped and i dont think we should judge someone we dont know because of one action or mistake. Besides if you are right he might need to make the mistake himself (like i did with my girlfriend) too find out what she is really like and that we are only meant to be friends, IF that is the case. I know that if i didnt go and make the mistake it would have bothered me for ages, thinking of the what if's. If i was him id do what i did and go for it, take the risk, make the mistake(if thats whatit is) and learn from it.

Just like i said before ensure you have damage limitation, dont give too much away and dont make a fool of yourself, that is the one thing i did that i wish i didnt, o except for a certain romantic incident but ill not go there.

all d best

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

]-;100584']I'll answer this in two ways:

1) I'll change the question..into a what would you do thing...what would I do? I'd drop her.
She's a shallow bitch imo.

2) Ok..what do I think you should do? Stay friends with her. If she would break up with you because of social status, she's not worth it.

ye but shes changed.. i know.. she actually talks to me now.. and we mess around now.. she was a slut.. but now i know shes changed..

EDIT- im also pretty popular now :)..

[Hot Fudge]

ye but shes changed.. i know.. she actually talks to me now.. and we mess around now.. she was a slut.. but now i know shes changed..

EDIT- im also pretty popular now :)..

If it was me i would just go for it, especialy considering the change of situation, just be careful and take my advice from before. all the best