Need Help Again PLEASE

[RJLOVER]

Hey guys so the last time i posted it was about my dilemma with two guys. so i picked one and now were pretty much about to go out but there's one problem i have. We've been fooling around for about 3 months now and every time i finish i go from like gay to straight. Like obviously i have gay feelings if were giving each other head or hand jobs but once i finish i get turned off by everything guys, dicks, etc. The same thing happens when i jerk off too, once i finish i cant think of guys.

does this happen to anyone else?
what does it mean?
and i feel bad cause he really wants to go out with me but if half the time i don't want to at all i don't know how it would work

[guacamole24]

1) Does this happen to anyone else?
- First of all, I'm not a doctor, but I'm pretty sure everyone gets turned off for a period of time after the orgasm. Second of all, you cannot change your sexuality day-by-day. If you're gay, you are gay. If you're bi, you are bi. If you're curious, you are curious, etc. Do you suddenly get turned on by females after the orgasm, or are you just turned off by everything?

2) What does this mean?
- It means that you just had an orgasm... it's normal.

Last of all, do you get turned off by guys in non-sexual situations,l ike, everyday?

[Scarface]

It sounds to me, this is imo like it's almost a guilt thing after an orgasm and that is perfectly okay. I used to get guilty after I would orgasm and forget about guys, but i turned out to be gay. Like the op said above be happy with whatever you enjoy the most whether woman, men or both.

[DanielBoy]

I'm pretty sure it is guilt. I know it sounds weird, but in masturbation, guilt always follows the pleasure. I guess the same gos for gay sex. I am curious / bi and haver not had gay sex yet, so i dont know for sure, but I think it may be a mind thing from before you even really understood sexuality. We were taught that masturbation was bad by churches and even our parents to a point, and those same churches and the bullies at school did the same for homosexuality. You may be felling remorseful for being gay after the sex ends. Just explain the situation to him and tell him you may need a few hours of space after having sex.

I only say this because this didn't happen to me after having sex with a girl, but it does after masturbating about a guy.

Hope this helps.

[RJLOVER]

obviously i know what im doing...
but like when i finish it like i dont want to even like look at him when were done... its not guilt its like i say when im thinking of guys yes i want to be with him but after i finish im like omg no i would never

[Trackstar29]

Mixed emotions, you just gotta go with your gut feeling or just take a lil bit and think about what your doing

[fat cat]

it's totally normal

[AMili]

I have the same problem. Or when I'm about to get off I start thinking of naked girls

[Spoookster]

Just so u know... i am not a homophobic, but as a Christian, I believe (only my conviction) is that God put those emotions in us.. bcuz Gay is not what God wished.

P.S I have nothing with gay ppl, i just answered from a Christian perspective

[SWMG]

Well maybe because you are not used to it and you feel like guilty after just when you Jack off the first time you feel guilty but when time goes on you will get used to it and feel ok

[Silentkink]

I think that you are Bi and not gay because if you think about guys at first and then are turned off and think about girls then you are bi.