Trouble with friend

[confusedboy23]

For the last three months, one of my best friends have been acting strangely. Firstly he strokes my hair. Secondly, he tells gay jokes all the time. Afterwards, we played on the 360 and he laid behind me, as I sat back on the couch. We laid down next to each in opposite sides. I didn't know what to do. I also noticed that he was scratching his b**ls sometimes when I was around. My friends have an inside joke with beandipping (placing finger on nipple) and one day, I tussled with him and he smiled, as I tried to beandip. The next time, I did it again but my leg was over his. He still smiled, saying jokingly, "I feel violated!" We didn't talk for a month but now he wants me around again, like he did before and like before, we tried to beandip each other. I noticed something was hard (on him)
Anyway, when the couch was full of people and he laid his head on my stomach, snuggling his head on me. I was shocked but he then said that he was just playing but I didn't believe that. I still don't.

[ForgetMeNot]

To be honest, I think your friend has feelings for you, but he's afraid of them at the same time, do you get what I mean?

[confusedboy23]

I feel the same way but I'm honestly not sure about your theory. He keeps doing these weird things like poke my nose. He laid his head on my back, held my arm and let go after I looked at him and he stroked my hair but he doesn't do that to the others. He also makes a weird hum or gasp when he sits by me. On the other hand though, he talks about girls frequently and said he wasn't gay. So why is he doing this to me and not everyone else? I don't understand at all. I wish he never did this to me because at the moment, he's the person I most think about. I hate it because I want to like girls more. I feel pretty scared now in all honesty.

[MacMilker]

hahaha hun its called flirting..hes flirting with you xD

[confusedboy23]

I highly doubt that. He said he likes girls. You think it would still be flirting?

[MacMilker]

Hahaha..

You seem new to this.. I see you vmed me but you should pm me.

He can say whatever he wants and of course he would deny it. Just because he says that it, doesn't mean anything.

[JesssLukeee]

I highly doubt that. He said he likes girls. You think it would still be flirting?

haahaha, you really don't get it do you? I think that he might be Bi, just cause he likes girls doesnt mean he's not curious about what could happen with guys. Tell him to stop if it's freaking you out, or better yet don't be friends with him if he keeps acting that way. OR you could give it a try? You said yourself that you couldnt stop thinking about him...

If you want to stick with girls, forget about him.. it's for the best:wub:

[Contra]

It sounds like he is either bi or curious, but he's too shy to ask you whatever he wants from you, and like Gabrielle said, he's probably afraid of his feelings too.
If you don't like it tell him to stop or talk to him, ask him why he's been acting strange, but tell him he can be honest with you, because if the problem is his sexuality you have to take it easy.

Good luck :)

[confusedboy23]

OK. Thanks guys.

[confusedboy23]

I know this is double posting but its rather important and if I posted a new thread, people will not know the whole story.

He now has a girlfriend and our frienship has grown stronger but he still keeps telling gay jokes (only towards me) and he stroked his foot on my leg after I touched his leg by accident. On the week, he had his gf, he didn't fiddle around with his .... around me but then one week later, he started again. Once again, I am confused.