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EternalPrayer
July 2nd, 2010, 08:54 PM
my bf and i started dating for a month already and he recently asked for photos of me in my underwear. I'm comfortable but sending him pictures like that,would it be considered as pornography or something like that? I'm scared what's gonna happen to those photos after we break up (just being careful). I don't know what to do. Help. :(

Cloud
July 2nd, 2010, 08:59 PM
if ya dont know what to do
dont do it at all
if your under 18 then its child pornography
and both of you can get in trouble for possessing and distributing it
and really after a month he shouldnt be in it for that so quickly
and sending pics like that are always tricky since if he sends them to more people your rather screwed by that
just dont do it id say
wait a bit and show him in person when you know hes not gonna screw you over

Taylorxbox
July 2nd, 2010, 09:10 PM
Do not send him pictures... Even though he begs you for them.

It is called "sexting" in some instances, and you can be put on the Sex Offender list..

I wouldnt send it.. because if he forwards it and other people get it, the police will find out. AND you could be teased and sending pics has many defects in life. **and if you break up, he will probably forward them, and you could get in big trouble.**

But Summary, Do NOT Send them. That is MY advice.

brennaluvv
July 2nd, 2010, 11:40 PM
Don't send him pictures. D: That would be a dumb idea. He may seem nice now, but if you guys got mad at each other, imagine what he could do with those! I've heard stories about people who sent their signifigant others pictures of themselves like that and they have trouble getting jobs and stuff because the relationship didn't survive and the person got mad and posted them. You can lose friends and even get in trouble with your school. Also, it's illegal if you're under age.

prettyprincess
July 3rd, 2010, 02:41 AM
Dont send them unless you trust him completely, BTW it's not porn unless your naked.

Jenna.
July 3rd, 2010, 09:28 PM
Don't send them to him. You might think you know him well but it's only been a month. You can't really trust him yet and you don't know for sure that he won't show anyone. If you end up staying together for a longer period of time, then maybe. But for right now, I wouldn't do it. The fact that he's asking for them this soon should be a warning sign for you. My boyfriend and I didn't even consider sending pictures of ourselves until we were together for at least six months. Granted, that's us. But still, you need time for trust to build before you go doing something that could put you in a compromising position.

spy1
July 3rd, 2010, 11:14 PM
i'm telling u DO NOT send him a pic (either then ur smiley face) i'm sure he just wana j/o on it or maybe even show it to his friend to be "cool". becareful with that he really can use them in a lot of stuff that dont make u happy and can affect your entire life.

emily_smallfry
July 3rd, 2010, 11:21 PM
def dont send them u could get in so much trouble. and he could show them to other ppl

honeybear
July 4th, 2010, 10:21 AM
it would only be illegal if she was nude... but I wouldnt do it if I were you.. unless you were fully dressed and put on a pair of panties over your jeans or something...then you'd technically give him what he wanted :) lol

Oli1994
July 4th, 2010, 06:36 PM
Forget about the damn law...

I would personally not do it as if u had an argument he could put the pics all over facebook or whatever u use, or just show friends

SneakBrain
July 4th, 2010, 07:08 PM
really bad idea i know u love him but u have to be concern about what going to happen in the future and what is the outcome of the consequences. but if u really really really really trust him go for it

RadioPlayer
July 5th, 2010, 12:14 AM
Yes, photos of you in your panties would be considered CHILD pornography, which is very illegal. I would recommend not sending him any revealing pics unless you fully trust him.

Daniel_
July 5th, 2010, 01:01 AM
To be honest, if he is asking for stuff like that after a month, I would start getting suspicious about weather or not he really likes you for YOU, or for what you LOOK like.

Although, I'm just an all around paranoid person, I would sit and talk with him, and tell him you do not feel comfortable with pictures like that getting out there for people to see.

xJarbear
July 5th, 2010, 01:58 AM
if ur sceptic about it just don't to it ... I hope I spelled that right

billium183
July 5th, 2010, 01:59 AM
dont..if u wanna show him whut u got :P
show him in person...NO PROOF

The Ninja
July 5th, 2010, 02:06 AM
this reminds me of a degrassi episode and the outcome of that wasnt very good so id say dont do it

Jillybean
July 5th, 2010, 04:52 PM
never ever ever ever never ever send pics!!!!!! unless you want your whole school to see them! this happened to my bff!!!

Sasha
July 6th, 2010, 02:42 PM
Yea be careful

Surferchic2362
August 18th, 2011, 03:18 PM
Sweetie, you run thongs in the relationship. Never do anything to hurt your reputation. Respect is a two way thing and if he respects you, he wouldn't ask.