no.. whatever u do.. dnt do it...

[sarah newman]

alot is going on wiv me at the moment..
theres this guy who wants to have sex wiv me whos 19 and im only 14! i dunno if he would use me or if he really does luv me
a lot of bad results in exams
my grandpa is slowly dyin.. the one person whos closest to me
i h8 the look of me
i h8 the prssure put onto me
i started self harming when i was 12, i stopped at when i just turned 14 which was march, as my tutor teacher really helped me stop.
but now, my tutor teacher is leaving! :'( i feel like everything is falling apart, my heart is slowly breaking
i wanna cut, or burn, but its summer and parents would no if i did it on the best place (arms). i try on my stomach, but i didnt get the same feeling
i no it tears my family apart when they found out, but im convinced that they wont find out again..
i have tried so hard not to cut, but i feel like thats the only thing left for me..
i just wanna cut.. just a couple more times...

[ackmedsgirl666]

DON'T cut whatever you do because if you go back you will become hooked and thats not good, you need help
someone to talk to. maybe you should consult a counsellor or something
but cutting is never the way out
please try and think of something to do that makes you happy
BUT JUST PLEASE DON'T CUT

[sarah newman]

but thats the prob, i have no one to go to :'(

[ackmedsgirl666]

well u can always talk to a friend
or maybe a guidance councillor at your school
u could call kids help phone or a youth advocacy line
or u can always post questions and stuff here on vt and someone will surely get back to you
when i feel like cutting myself i do things to distract myself like read, go on the computer, draw a picture, write down my feelings or go for a really long walk
maybe if you try come of these methods you will feel better ok?
hope this works for you

[1_21Guns]

won't just be a couple more times though will it hun.
yeah it gets hard sometimes, but unless we carry on we're never gonna beat it.
cutting isn't going to change any one of the things going on in your life hun,
it wont make them better. if anything it will just make them worse.
you have everyone on here to go to, yeah it's not as good as having a physical person there, but its something.
you need to take the strength that your tutor has given you and carry on through,
becuase you can beat it hun.
please dont cut,
PM me if you ever need to talk.

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

Snap an elastic band againest ur wrist, or hold a icecube in ur hand until it melts if u have the urge. If u cut or burn again it will take over. The first time I cut, I said " Only once" now ive been SHing for 3 years. Awesome job on stopping by the way : ). U always have someone to go to. Maybe a friend or family member? . 1 21Guns is right, U should take the strenth ur tutor gave u to get threw this. If u ever need anything feel free to PM me. X Stay strong

[sarah newman]

i just feel so lonely right now. i havent felt like this in a long time. i have stopped for about a month if u count not doing it on stomach- which i think is great. but i havent felt the urge to do it until now. i h8 it. xx thanx 4 your help tho x i cant go to a family member- i cant break there hearts like i have done so many times in the past x

[Luisa]

hi im new to this so dnt really no how it works x i know how u feel coz i goin thru the same thing. i havent been able to stop but tbh i dont wanna. it makes me feel better and i have no one to talk to. this is a bit hypicritical but i dont want anyone else to hurt themself. at least u have gd looks (if u have a bf then u do). im really fat n ugly but i just hope u get better and try to stop x try talkin to ur family x make the most of them coz its only when u lose them that u wish u had talked to them x (i have lost mine and now im not close to anyone)

[sarah newman]

hi im new to this so dnt really no how it works x i know how u feel coz i goin thru the same thing. i havent been able to stop but tbh i dont wanna. it makes me feel better and i have no one to talk to. this is a bit hypicritical but i dont want anyone else to hurt themself. at least u have gd looks (if u have a bf then u do). im really fat n ugly but i just hope u get better and try to stop x try talkin to ur family x make the most of them coz its only when u lose them that u wish u had talked to them x (i have lost mine and now im not close to anyone)

awww, well i hope this forum helps, youu
thanx for the advice, and i will try and stop (altho i also dont want to)
go careful on yourself
if youu want to talk to anyone, pm me anytime xxx

[Asylum]

hun.. it'll always be.. just one more cut.. it's just one more.. well put an end to it now.. your stronger then you think. you can quit! you can stop! you just need to want to, and you need to believe in yoruself. worst case situation where you have absolutely no one, you have us here on VT to tlak to. seriously tho.. i'm sure there is someone. there are teachers, parents, firends. however i completely understnad where you are if there is no one but you are NOT alone. you have us your VT family. cutting won't solve anything but will hurt others around you.
i'm sorry about yoru grandpa. i know you have a lot going on... but i'm sure your grandpa wouldn't want you hurting yourself. quit for your grandpa, for your tutor, if not yoruself. quit for those who love and care about you.

you can go to family members. they love you and want to be there for you. that is what fmaily is for. they will love you unconditionally. they only want whats best for you. please look for help if you can't quit on your own.

cutting will not relieve any of the stress from what is going on. it won't fix anything... try not to hun. i'm hear for you if you ever need someone to tlak to PM me anytime. hope this helps

[sarah newman]

Thank you, I haven't cut for a month now :)