i need advice..

[sarah newman]

hey, i think this is the right place to put ym post, if u think it should go under relationships and dating then please move it.
theres this guy who claims he realy likes me, but one problem.. hes 19! he turns 20 in november, and im only 14.
whenever he's after something he always puts extra kisss at the end of a text.
my m8s who no him say he wont use me as hes not the type who would do that, but if they think that then answer me this.. y does he keeps asking me to give him head, and to shag him??!
im really confused, i have a few exams coming up, and i dunno if i ned to be in a relationship.
i have already said yes coz he makes me feel guilty otherwise
im really upset, am i ready for sex? my friends say they've done it, so surely im ready to do it, arent i??
He also said that he has a kid but he hardly ever see's him, and he started spreadin rubbish bout me, like i forced him to finger me, which i didnt
i felt uncomfortable when he fingered me in the first place, i just need to get my head round things, im really confused..
what should i do?? x

[nick]

He sounds like a most unsuitable person for 14 year old to even think about dating. He's breaking the law by doing anything sexual with you at all, trying to pressurise you into sex before you're ready for it and has already got one girl pregnant by the sound of it.

Here's my advice, drop him and drop him now.

Thats illegal wherever you happen to live and could get him sent to prison if you get found out for having sex with him.

[Kaius]

Teen Sexuality :arrow2: Relationships and Dating

[ackmedsgirl666]

this does not sound like a very healthy relationship at all. i have been in a similar experience like this except my guy is 25
anyways you need to get out of this relationship because first of all 16 is the legal age for consent in most countries( canada is anyways) and he can wind up in jail. you shouldn't even really be hanging around guys that A) are too old for you
and B) make you feel like shit
i think that you should just forget about him and move on personally because you are still young and have a life ahead of you.
oh and another thing
just because your friends are all having sex does not mean that you should too, and don't always rely on what your friends tell you is good or not, i mean sex is good if you are responsible about it but you shouldn't be forced into things like that.
hope this helps

[sarah newman]

thank youu x

[ackmedsgirl666]

thank youu x
your welcome
if u have anything else to ask u can pm me and we caN TALK

[sarah newman]

Thanks

[Ambrosia]

Glad you found out all your answers, Sarah! Locking so no one else bothers with last years business or stirs up old feelings---(: :locked: