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TheFountainGoddess
July 2nd, 2010, 01:33 AM
I'm really sorry if this isn't the proper place to say this...but...im confused about this guy I know. I'm going into the eigth grade and so is he...We met in the 6th grade and we were REALLY mean to each other...but in the 7th grade...we were in the same math class...and sat right next to each other in the first quarter...then...b4 winter break we were playing speed...and idk what got us into this conversation...but...we were talking about how we were really mean to each other wen we met...then he said 'you've really grown on me, since we've met.' WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?!?! i must have looked confused because then he said 'not like a fungus, but like, relationship wise.' WHICH CONFUSED ME EVEN MORE! and, during class...i wuld look up and out of the corner of my eye i would see him looking at me. and we talk... A LOT! but like...i think as friends...on his fb...it says he's in a relationship...but one of his close bffs said that he and her r just really good friends and have their relationship status's like that bcuz they dont want to have any1 asking them out...IM RELLY CONFUSED! I don't know if i really like him or what...or if he really likes me...i THINK i just like him as a friend...but there's a small part of me who think i like him like him...i dont want to have a bf rite now...im trying to get my career started..and its not really a date until one of u can drive around...or something like that...IM SO CONFUSED! im sorry if its not very clear...its hard to xplain...i guess what im trying 2 ask is:
A-does he like me?
1. i caught him looking a lot at me everytime i looked up in the 7th grade
2. he said 'you've grown on me, since we've met.not like a fungus, but like, relationship wise,'
B-do i like him?
1. I look at him a lot when i see him looking at me
2. i blush when i talk to him
3. i thin k he's sweet and cute...BUT I DON'T KNOW IF ITS IN THAT WAY!

sorry if you can't help.....i can always just keep him as a good friend and if he asks me out l8r he does...thnx in advance!

-Lexi

oh, and, in the beginning of the 7th grade...in math...he sat in front of me...we were taking notes...he turned around put a big heart on the inside of my notebook and wrote his name in it...and looked at me as is there was something he wasn't telling me. UGH! there's a reason i don't date: ITS TOO COMPLICATED!

loonatic
July 2nd, 2010, 03:47 AM
Well , its hard to say if he likes you or if you likes him .

I think that something between you exists and isn't just a really close friendship .

If you are getting more and more confused why you and him doesn't go to a place and TALK , for me that is the aswer to all my problems ^^

But firstly i think you should stop a litle bit and see if you like him or not .

Kiss ,
Loonatic

P.S: Bad English

ErykaInspire.
July 3rd, 2010, 12:40 PM
It sounds to me like you've both matured since the 6th grade.

Looking at each other numerous times could mean several things:
-Finding Interest/Being attracted toward.
-Wanting to have a conversation.
-Observing.

By observing, I mean watch how you work. I'm a people watcher myself, so I do it quite often- even giving off mixed signals. I like to know what someone does when they're in a certain situation.

Although, I doubt he's the same way. Especially by the statement he made about you growing on him. He possibly means that he's grown attached or attracted to you during the past year.

As for you liking him, that's not something anyone else can decide for you. You have to figure it out for yourself. Which, I'm sure you will. :)

Keep talking to him, be yourself. See where it goes.

PM me if you'd like to talk about anything.
Best of luck.

Harley Quinn
July 3rd, 2010, 01:00 PM
Puberty for Girls :arrow: Relationships and Dating

TheMightyBruce
December 19th, 2011, 04:20 PM
The only way to find out...is if you ask him about it...but don't start anything if you don't feel ready for it.