The Confusion

[HelloWorld123456]

So ... I've been in this struggle to discover what I am, whether I am gay or bi for a long time, and it is really consuming me. I cant make up my mind, like seriously, i dont know if i prefer any of the sexes more than the other, but I like to hang out more with boys, and have boy friends rather than girlfriends.

I need help with one serious issue. I've been crushing on my friend, but he has a gf. I've heard that he's bi sexual and that he used to go out with boys. He flirts with me, but then again, I don't know what to do when I am around him. I would be confused about how to behave when I am with him. He also admits that he doesnt love his gf, and he sends me a lot of songs, which the lyrics are pretty much powerful. The point is, I fell in love with him, and can;t get him off my mind, at all ... I can't do anything that doesn't remind me of him, and I am getting sad :(.

I dont think there's a question to answer, I just need opinions to how you would behave :(.

Thanks .. x

[deco168]

just tell him or your'll just regret it

[HelloWorld123456]

But i am not sure how he will take it :s ... because lately he's been dating as lot more girls than boys :(

[TAC1]

Im in your exact predicament. I've realized that it'll just straighten itself out. The only difference with my friend and yours is that mine is straight. I would act normal around him and tell him..That would make it a whole lot better. And don't feel sad..that will only bring you down even more.

[oscarRAWR]

Well honestly if I were you i'd tell him. Words unspoken are never a good thing. In the long run of things i guarantee you you will regret not telling him. I understand your worried about how he will react, but you need to disregard that thought. You'll feel better letting it out, than keeping your emotions bottled up.

[HelloWorld123456]

Thanks guys, I might tell him this weekend ... I'd rather tell him, rather than hold it in forever..

Thanks :) x

[deco168]

Tell us how it went GOOD LUCK ....

[miami_kid]

im in the exact same situation as usaf... in my opinion, tell him. hes bi, so at the very least, he'll understand, right? good luck if you havent done it yet.

[ForgetMeNot]

You really should tell him, like everyone said. It's bad to leave words/things undone. It will make you happier to know you got the courage to ask him, even if he rejected you.

Good Luck ^,^