i like this girl who is bi too but she wont date me

[bubbles12392]

im 18 years old and i have been bi since the 8th grade. well i met this girl 2 years ago and i have been friends with her since then. well, i found out that she's bi too and i thought it was pretty freaking hot lol. well we started hangin out and stayin the night at each other's houses and thats when i started to have this big crush on her. when i stay the night at her house we cuddle and kiss and flirt like crazy. well she's been talkin to this guy she dated before and well she said that they might go out again. well i asked her out and she said no but she told me that she has feelings for me and likes me more than a friend but she likes her ex still. she said she wont date me because she said that if we do and she ends up dating her ex and dumping me then she'll feel terribly and she said she doesnt want to hurt. GAHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!! :confused::confused::confused: i dont know what to do???????

[Ryhanna]

I think you just have to live with it :(
I think she's doing the right thing. She's confused about her feelings and doesn't want to hurt you. Just respect her desicion, you never know, things might change! :)

[nick]

Not sure that there is anything you can do, she has to make her own choice about who she wants to date. We all get these sorts of disappointments to deal with, its just part of life.

[Kaius]

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