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LiTTleBrok3nDolly
July 1st, 2010, 01:44 AM
This is going to be detailed, but is it wrong when you and a guy you really like are sitting on a couch and the guy has his arm around your neck and he looks at you for a long time and then kisses you and smiles and gently brushes the back of his hand on your cheek and then tickles your side a little bit so you push his arm away but he pushes back and you smile and laugh and then he tickles the back of your neck and you squirm which lets him tickle you more and you slide down the couch. And then you run away form him and he chases you and you end up against the wall and his arms are on the sides of your head and he kisses you again and slides his hand up your shirt? Idk, im sure this is okay and its a relationship between two people who either really like each other or who love each other. Or just having a conversation and he makes her laugh and the other way around and he starts tickling her. This is my second post involving tickling.

IS there something wrong with me for being curious about tickling? Im not sure, i kinda want a guy i like to make me laugh and then tickle me, but then im naturally shy and im a little embarrassed admitting this. And, i really want a guy to tickle me and enjoy it, but, i dont know anyone who will. :(

Ryhanna
July 1st, 2010, 02:13 AM
Thats called being in an intimate relationship :)
It's perfectly fine.. and very, very detailed :D

billium183
July 1st, 2010, 02:19 AM
whats wrong with that? yu like him..he likes you.....

nick
July 1st, 2010, 03:30 AM
So long as you're happy with it its OK for your boyfriend to touch you whereever and however you like. If you dont like it then ask him to stop, but it sounds like you do like it so just enjoy it then.

Art_dude
July 1st, 2010, 08:12 PM
uhhhhhh yea..... that's called being in a relationship lol

In all seriousness though, I think why you're a little apprehensive about sharing this is because of the 'tickling' factor. I would hope you wouldn't be so reluctant to enter a physical relationship - I think your confusion is about your feelings about 'playing around' with your boyfriend. I think it's healthy to explore your different sexual turn-ons, including what sounds like 'wrestling' around playfully. As long as you're doing it safely go for it :)

LiTTleBrok3nDolly
July 2nd, 2010, 12:20 AM
didnt mean to sound dumb X) im just weird.

Art_dude
July 2nd, 2010, 07:55 AM
I hope you don't feel that way! It was a legitimate question. I hope we were able to help somehow. Can you tell us why you felt reluctant to ask us?

LiTTleBrok3nDolly
July 6th, 2010, 11:11 AM
I was reluctant at first cause ive been a little obsessed with tickling for a bit and it just felt weird asking something i felt a little was stupid to be asking, i just felt weird thinking about it and so i felt that weird feeling wasnt normal.