View Full Version : Are we doing things too fast?
EternalPrayer
July 1st, 2010, 12:50 AM
My bf and i have been dating for at least a month and we've done so much together.
We've hugged,hold hands ,kissing,french kissing, bumgrabbing and he's started to go up my shirt and all.
He's my first bf so i can't really tell if we're going too fast or not, but he ALWAYS makes sure i'm ready and when i'm not he doesn't force anything onto me.
For a couple to have only started going out, do you think we're doing things abit too fast? Please give me advice.
Kuervo
July 1st, 2010, 01:54 AM
well i just had my first gf as well, unfortunately we broke up. wut i think is tht u guys mite be going a tad too fast. i went too fast in my relationship which caused our breakup
billium183
July 1st, 2010, 02:04 AM
if u guys are both ready, then go for it...cept sex...u shud w8 awhile fer tht
Ryhanna
July 1st, 2010, 02:07 AM
I think you should make you relationship as emotional as it is physical, if its not already.
If you like each other a lot and aren't just doing it all for sex and fun, then it's never too fast! <3
nick
July 1st, 2010, 03:35 AM
There is no such thing as too fast or too slow because there is no fixed timetable for these things, its entirely a question of what you are comfortable with and what feels right for you.
honeybear
July 1st, 2010, 07:11 AM
if you are ok with it and he's ok with it it isnt too fast..enjoy yourselves!
markayy
July 1st, 2010, 03:34 PM
Naa, you're not going too fast at all. You two are going at your own pace, which is pretty quick, but if you're both comfortable with it, then i don't see why there is a problem (:
prettyprincess
July 1st, 2010, 09:19 PM
The important thing is that you always feel comfortable
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