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Spinder
June 30th, 2010, 11:37 PM
I've learnt not to expect anything from anyone. At first, they would always say, "Oh, you're such a beautiful girl.." and then, they would just start hating me, and I don't know why. I had no idea what I said to offend them so badly. I tried so hard to be a good person, but they would not have any of it, and insisted on beating me down emotionally every chance they got. I don't know what I did so wrong.

Nobody would help, with anything, nobody cared, nobody would help, in my most desperate hour... they would not help, I was left to fend for myself, all alone, with no one to turn to. And that time... all of those times, he hurt me, hit me, put me in a chokehold, threw me to ground, kicked me in my ribs, my back, my head, punched me, pushed me, threw me into a wall... I tried, I tried to tell someone, but nobody cared. Nobody would help. Tried to escape... but couldn't, couldn't escape, tried so hard, but I couldn't do it alone. But I was alone... nobody cared... nobody would help.

Beating... hurt... outside... by the playground, by the community shed, by the traffic circle... all of the poor neighborhood kids that had to witness that... but they couldn't do anything... they told the adults about it, but nothing was ever done about it... nobody cared enough to do anything...

Beside the shed... he shoved me... went flying backwards, landed on a pile of wood, hit my head, hurt... knocked the wind out of my lungs, couldn't breathe for a couple of seconds... terrified... they saw, two seven year old girls that I was friends with... they were horrified, went and got an adult, she came and ordered me to come away from the shed... didn't hear what she said next... ran as fast as I could back to my house, slammed the door, locked it... I was having a very bad anxiety attack, I knew, because I was so short of breathe, my chest felt tight, I could barely breathe... I could barely move, because my knees were so weak, all of my muscles just felt so weak, my head was spinning, was crying... I'm glad my mother was not home at the time.

Try hard, to be strong... try not to think about it... but the memory, all the memories, still haunt me... whenever I get thinking about it, I start trembling, start to feel panicky, my heart starts pounding, I start sweating... just stare at the wall, sometimes, lost in thought... I don't know if I will ever get over the memory of it, the pain, oh, the pain... and the hurt, how much it hurt, that no one cared, no one would help.

All I wanted... only wanted, to feel liked, to feel accepted, by them... but no... they coldly turned their noses up at me, wouldn't help, wouldn't do anything... I was... alone... lost... helpless... nobody would do anything. Nobody cared. They all hated me and told me I was worthless... that I should just kill myself.

I was rejected.

Spinder
July 1st, 2010, 01:51 PM
No? I guess it came out wrong...

Magus
July 1st, 2010, 01:58 PM
If I were you I would have hit the Gym, and learned some Kung-Fu. By then I am all set; who will be there to bewilder me -- who will be there to suffocate me?

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Kaya
July 1st, 2010, 02:01 PM
If you need to talk PM me. Im always here to help/talk.

Aspiringanonymous
July 2nd, 2010, 08:12 PM
You've done nothing wrong, hun - the world is an absurd place and unjustified acts are committed all the time to undeserving people. It's not fair, it makes no sense, but it is an unfortunate aspect of our reality. Acknowledge it, but don't accept the senseless things that it attempts to carve into your head.

I experience random outbursts of bad memories as well - it is paralyzing, I know - but remember, that it is only a memory now. What has passed is over, and in retrospect, it is through these experiences that you have gained the perception and strength which you possess today. The dynamics behind the situation from memory may still haunt you to some extent in the form of new situations and people, but you are able to deal with it better now. And it will get better and better as time goes on, distancing your immediate consciousness from the source of pain.

Every once in a while, the past will come back alive, to remind us of just how far we have come since the days of our worst. It's okay - acknowledge its presence - but trust that this time, it will be only temporary, because the circumstances which generated it in the first place are no longer present.

I'll be here as well if you need someone. Take care for now. :hug3: