Sleeping with Friend

[fordfan67]

I basically and living with my best friend. We sleep in the same bed and I am curiose but I dont know about him. I want to talk to him and stuff but dont know how. And everynight I sleep with him i want to do stuff but i know i cant. What should i do

[nick]

Nothing. Unless you have reason to think he feels the same way and doesnt like to ask then just keep those thoughts to yourself. You would most likely just screw up your friendship to do anything else.

[Soccerkix]

nothing, Nick gave the perfect answer

[jameshotti12boy]

idk i would kinda hint around it a lil bit and see if he picks up on the hints

[BlizzKid]

I agree with both Nick and James. Unless you think there is something then leave it alone. But make an undirect hint and see if he goes with it, if not then leave it. Sorry buddy.

[oreolover]

hahah i agree with nick and james :) if he doesnt do anything about the hints or didnt pick it up then sorry about it, there is nothning u can do about it.

[woody92]

orr... you could just ask him if he would like to do something... if not then just accept it... if yes then thats great... You need to be carefull though... make sure he wont chuck you out or something if you do it...

[BlizzKid]

I wouldnt go straight out and ask, that could end very badly!

[DanielBoy]

If you really want to know, ask. Don't defuse by being joking, ask seriously. Be in a serious conversation about something related and ask. Now don't tell him you are if he isn't, it could make everything really weird, especially since you are sharing a bed and all. Defiantly don't do anything unless he is okay with it, ie don't do anything while he is asleep.

If he says no, don't push it, he may be weird about it. If you are as good of friends with him as you make it sound, he will most likely be honest with you, or he just maybe uncomfortable with it.

Good luck bro.

[alexpop]

Rape him lol jkkkk like Nick&james said talk him and give him hints. DON'T PUSH IT because the relationship would change

[Nexus]

Ask him in a non-suspicious tone if he has any interest in guys.

[Harley Quinn]

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[dustinjayguest]

go with what u think is right

[newteen13]

don't do anything unless he asks you stuff and says he wants to. you don't want to ruin your friendship.

[Trackstar29]

talk to him about stuff

[axel3]

maybe start a convo about j/o? one thing leads to another is what they say.

[ray8806]

Woa, I was typing but I felt I was getting WAY too descriptive. If you want to know my more in-depth answer, just PM me. :)

But yea, just start a convo about j/o or something with him and see where it goes.

[MisterE]

unless u think he might 2 be, i wouldnt do anything :/

[DrWho]

Nothing. Unless you have reason to think he feels the same way and doesnt like to ask then just keep those thoughts to yourself. You would most likely just screw up your friendship to do anything else.

Couldn't Say It Any Better

[lil emo boy]

Easy. Jus ask him. Nd if he says no. Ur screw'd. No more sleep ova's

[oscarlichen]

Nothing. Unless you have reason to think he feels the same way and doesnt like to ask then just keep those thoughts to yourself. You would most likely just screw up your friendship to do anything else.



Yeah, he's right. But if you want to, become better friends then you could ask.

[neigh]

i would not do anything unless u r 4 sure he would want 2.
some times it is best just 2 be ok with being friends.
might want to get some kind of small bed or cot to sleep on. or sleep in the living room or something ---- take care - neigh

[blindbysight1]

i would give subtle hints. or start a related conversation then in the middle ask if he'd like to experiment. if he says yes, then good for you. if its a no, then drop the topic and continue with something else

[tinkergenius]

Don't do ANYTHING!!

You're his guest, and it's a roof over your head. right?

Be a Guest...act like a Guest..help like a Guest.

TIME TIME TIME.... is what's needed.

Let HIM come to you and whisper his desires to you.....if ever he does...and go from there.

[samshan]

Nothing. Unless you have reason to think he feels the same way and doesnt like to ask then just keep those thoughts to yourself. You would most likely just screw up your friendship to do anything else.

my thoughts exactly!:yes:

[Brandon K]

talk to him

[GTA4]

Watching porn when he walks into the room might work. That is what I was doing when my friend walked in. Now we have GREAT times together. If u know what I mean.

[ShaneK]

i quote from my blog love or... "emotions more often than not intrude into the sexual arena, complicating things."

[Rashard]

Nothing it could screw up ur whole relationship

[persiandude]

when the time is right u will know....

[JJSSHH]

Nothing. Unless you have reason to think he feels the same way and doesnt like to ask then just keep those thoughts to yourself. You would most likely just screw up your friendship to do anything else.

Exactly

[curious_boy]

hint at it, see where it leads. but dont force anything

[ITSGUCCITIME]

Nothing. Unless you have reason to think he feels the same way and doesnt like to ask then just keep those thoughts to yourself. You would most likely just screw up your friendship to do anything else.

I agree100%

[burnetboy]

My best friend just recently moved back out and he lived here for about 6 months...I thought he was totally straight and i was bi. I told him after about a week that i normally slept naked and he said that he did too so we slept naked form then on and one thing led to another....

[Fact]

Please don't bump old threads.

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