Needs help with a girl

[aaronbrumbrum22]

Ok so I am 14 years old and going into 9th grade and there is this girl in my class that I have liked now for about 3 months. We talk to each other at lunch and have two classes together but now that school is out the only way we can communicate is by texting each other. Well, the only problem until now is that she has had a boyfriend. But just about 1-2 weeks ago they broke up. I want to ask her out but don't know if it will be good to do it now since I won't be able to see her that much. This would be my first relationship and she has gone out with many people. I am also afraid that she will say no. I don't want to rush her out from her old relationship because she was with that guy for about 2 months. I think she knows that I like her and doesn't seem to mind. After she broke up with her old boyfriend, I texted her just to see if she was feeling ok and she said she was. So... I guess what I am asking is how i should approach this situation. Thanks!

[Heretic]

Just go balls in head over heels. Life is too short to be cautious. Although I think all high school relationships are bullshit I still say go for it. Good experience.

[billium183]

i say..first..chill w. her...just hangout..maybe with other people...and if u have a friend who is friends with her, ask them to ask her(DISCRETELY)if she likes you...i personally like to make sure a girl likes me b4 i ask her out

[Kuervo]

well...iv had the same situation as u, but unfortunately i asked her if she liked me she said no =(, but i moved on. so u shud just try asking her urself and see if she likes u and wants to go out. if she doesnt oh well, move on. if she does thn ur in theballpark lol =P

[steve1234]

All I can say is just go for it.
If she says no, than that will be annoying but at least you tried, and if she says yes, then that will be brilliant. You will never truly know how she feels about you unless you tell her how you feel.
Good Luck!.

[Dog Desab]

same situation except over winter break and she said no but i went for it and moved on... so go for it bro

[aaronbrumbrum22]

ok thanks for your advice and experiences too!

[rextoystory]

You could start by giving her time to recover from the other relationship, meanwhile, you can show her that you're a great guy! Be there for her if she needs to talk, cry... That way you'll earn her trust. :) Starting a relationship right now could be difficult, because there's no way you can contact her except for texting... so... if you are a little nervous or something, you can hide that, she can't see that you're nervous if you send her an sms... :)

Conclusion: Right now, be there for her and maybe flirt a little, when you see her at school you can spend more time with her and have something more to talk about... then someday ask her out... Patience :)

GOOD LUCK!!