Log in

View Full Version : He knows, I think


Biguy96
June 29th, 2010, 10:11 PM
Hey:)

Ok. So.First off, i am bisexual, and, I was talking to this one guy on MSN, and we were just talking (he's gay). And we both like each other, but we live pretty far away from each other. But anyways, He sent me something to download, but I had to go. So I figured I'd just leave the computer on, so it would finish downloading. So I decided I'll just leave it on, and talk to him when I get home. So I told him I had to leave, and the last thing I said to him was "Bye sexxxxy"

So when I get home, to my surprise, my room was clean. It wasn't even close to being clean when I left. But the first thing thing I notice, is that my computer is still on, and open on MSN where I was talking to him. So I'm all panicking, wondering if my parents read it, because I'm not ready to come out to them. So I try to forget about it, and I eventually did forget about it. Though, it was a bit awkward around my parents, but nothing bad.

But then, the next day, my mom has a gold party, and I'm talking to my friend (Jordan), and then, my brother (Dalton) come up to us. And this is what happens;

Dalton: What's up lesbian?
Jordan: Hey! I'm not a lesbian.
Dalton: Haha I know. But it's alright, Colton's bi. Huh Colton? Who's Austin? Why'd you call him sexy?

So I'm just stading there, not even knowing what to say, because I haven't thought about it for a while, you know? So, I'm just stressed about what's gonna happen. Like, I'm not sure if he's gonna get mad at me someday, and then tell my parents, or if he's just gonna out me to the whole high school, or what. I mean, if he does, I think it's be ok, but I'm not really ready for too many people to know...

What do you think I should do?:what:

Ryhanna
June 29th, 2010, 10:33 PM
I'm not sure I understand this...

How'd your friend know? O.O

Biguy96
June 29th, 2010, 10:35 PM
I'm not sure I understand this...

How'd your friend know? O.O

It's my brother that knows...not my friend.

Ryhanna
June 29th, 2010, 10:39 PM
Okayyyyy.

So your brother saw the computer that you left on, on an msn page calling some guy sexy...

I'd say the best thing you can do is talk to him about it. Tell him that your not comfortable enough to come out and ask him to stay quiet.

nick
June 30th, 2010, 02:27 AM
I'd say the best thing you can do is talk to him about it. Tell him that your not comfortable enough to come out and ask him to stay quiet.
I agree. His reaction to what he saw seems pretty mild so I think you should trust him and just be honest. It would be a first step towards coming out and you would probably feel better for it.

Shortkid
June 30th, 2010, 08:10 PM
Well, you could tell your brother that you were just jokiing around or if he doesn't believe that you could try to get something on him so that you can make a deal not to tell his secret if he doesn't tell yours.

billium183
June 30th, 2010, 08:17 PM
he prob thut yu were kidding? idk..if he hasnt mentioned it,,,id just leave it

XxMurderedKissesxX
July 1st, 2010, 08:07 PM
Id ethier ask him to keep it betweebn the two of u, or say u were joking around. He seemed pretty chill with it, so thats a plus right?

mysterious
July 1st, 2010, 08:33 PM
I also think that my brother knows that I'm gay, but I think he won't betray me because my parents are very conservative ..And sometimes it's annoying/uncomfortable when we come to some gay theme...

Try to talk with your brother, it all depends on what kind of person he is, i guess :confused: