metting bi or gay people in my area

[cplayer1994]

hello this is my first time doing this so i hope its ok. does anyone have any advice on metting bi or gay people in my area. i kinda want to met some people like me (im bi), and maybe even get a relationship going but im nervous about trying to get out there any advie is awsome!!!

[Malcolm Tucker]

Hi, and welcome to the site :)

Have you considered joining a LGBTQ youth group? Try this (http://www.nyacyouth.org/#). I haven't had a look but a Google search spat it up. I would join it. It's not just a great way to meet other gay, bisexual and transgender people, but it's a group built entirely on support and respect. If you're still in the closet, say, most groups will respect that.

If available, is there a Gay-Straight alliance in your high school? Also great way to meet people!

[cplayer1994]

thanks i will try it and nope there isnt one at my school

[mysterious]

I do not know if this is the right topic but...I have a question.. my friend chats up to me.. i'm sure that he's bi and i have feeling that he only wants sex (don't ask me why because i know him as a person and he openly talks about it) what should i do- try to make relationship or be his fuck friend:D? what do you think??

[cplayer1994]

hey its up to u if u dont want to have just sex try to see if u can do the relationship if it dosent work it dosent work

[tpzy94]

go to a gay club we have those round here i dont go to them but i see teens goin n out of them

[mysterious]

hey its up to u if u dont want to have just sex try to see if u can do the relationship if it dosent work it dosent work

Im still confused, I dont know what I want, I hope it will end well :confused:.
tnx anyway

[Billy15]

wow taylor you and i have the same problem and i could have asked the same question.
i am 90% sure im gay, parents dont know and neither do my friends (very homophobic area) and i dont think i act gay at all so i figure my chances of ever finding someone to love is probably pretty slim. as far as i know nobody in my school is gay (or their hiding like me) so i have no idea how to meet other gay people if there are any in this area.

[sildavin]

wow taylor you and i have the same problem and i could have asked the same question.
i am 90% sure im gay, parents dont know and neither do my friends (very homophobic area) and i dont think i act gay at all so i figure my chances of ever finding someone to love is probably pretty slim. as far as i know nobody in my school is gay (or their hiding like me) so i have no idea how to meet other gay people if there are any in this area.

I too have this problem, I've joined a GSA in my school, but I met no one cause, and our school took away everyone's activity period( once a month a bunch of clubs/groups would get together and talk about stuff) so I didnt get a chance to tell them all that im Bi.

I will be keeping my eye on this thread, also, looking for answers >.>

[BlizzKid]

Sounds kinda like me. I am in a more open area where it is okay to be gay, but people dont just go out and say "LOOK AT ME IM GAY!". That doesnt happen. The best suggestions are already made here so good luck to you all and myself :)

[cplayer1994]

haha william we do have really similar problems :D nice to know someone is going through what i am even though its not the best thing to go through :P

[Mynameisconner]

I plan on using this advice too! Thanks everyone.

[fossil]

I doubt that someone from my city is on VT :D.. I would like to have some mates posting on the forum.

You know, here, where are live there aren't many homophobics but also there aren't many who are gay or bi.... or they hide or not tell.... but the most of them are curious...

so i would say that i have a problem with having a mate close to me in this way... the society is more homophobic that the people as individuals, you know what i mean....

I actually had one friend... close friend, we were jacking together, sucking our cocks, but at the end he "fucked me out" :D i do not know what happened, he was scared, not sure? don't know....

I really do not have a clue what to do... for me or you, an advice