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punkjake
June 26th, 2010, 11:37 PM
There is this one girl who I've liked for YEARS and we've gone off and on,but she also rejects me a lot.She says she likes me...but I'm not sure.She likes this one guy ,because she thinks he sporty,when he does the same sports ,and he's kinda fatter then me,sorry I'm off subject any ways she really seems to like me ,we always make each other laugh and stuff but she's now seeming like she just wants to be friends,last year when we we're going out she said she didn't think she was ready because her mom and etc.So we broke up.THEN SHE went out with this tall guy who seems to hate me now 4 some reason,but i wasn't mad because this was b4 the promise and she broke up with him for the same reasons for me except her parents found out and wouldn't leave her alone.THEN after she had made the promise she went out with the guy who she thinks is "sporty" .And i kinda mentioned the hint b4 but she act like she didn't care.And she now is suggesting that she's gng to be with him next year.She isn't a player or really the type of person to do this! There was also a bunch of drama two years ago she said she was going out with me for real but my other friends (girls and guys) said she was doing it for pity,which i wouldn't mind if she just told me the truth but she lied like 5 times!Lately she's been flirty but i haven't built my hope up... shes not a player...IDK .Should i just give up? Because she really is nice and we do get along pretty well,and our closet friends always say good we'll be.I just don't now any more.

rextoystory
July 3rd, 2010, 09:00 PM
Hmm... wow you have one hell of a problem here... let me see if I get it, the main problem is that you think she could be playing with you? By what you're saying, I can say that she isn't, but she is insecure about what she wants... maybe she wants you, maybe she wants the other guy, maybe she wants no one at all...

Advice here, talk to her, and let her know what you think, be totally sincere, and ask here what she feels? Is she confused? Does she know what she wants? There you will get the answers and know what to do... that's what I would do.

GOOD LUCK!