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AutumnDae
June 26th, 2010, 04:52 PM
(Title wasn't really related, but I was listening to the song.)

"I can wait."
"For how long?"
"As long as it takes."

"When can I see you? Ever since school ended I miss seeing your smile while you walk down the hallway...you always seem so carefree."
"I'm not carefree, I just like being happy."
"You make me happy."

"You look so pretty in your profile picture."
"Awh, thanks haha, but it's nothing special."
"No, really, you're special, believe me."

3 different conversations. 3 different times. 3 different people. 1 Autumn. *Dramatic Music*

Conversation 1: Talking to Tyler about me not wanting a boyfriend. He kept telling me he wanted me, he wanted everything me. Meaning: He wanted to hook up. I'm not dumb, I know when a guy wants sex. Not that he was getting any. "I can wait." Those three words showed my he really cared, but how much? How long could he wait? Apparently a while, because he said that in March and it's now almost July. "Things are messed up Autumn. The only thing I know now is that I want you, so bad." 3 nights ago. Alright, so I guess Tyler still wants me.

Conversation 2: Nolan is the biggest sweetheart I've met in my entire life. "A few ground rules here, wife. You choose where we eat, what movie we see and I'm paying." "Nighty night, sweet dreams. I'll talk to you tomorrow beautiful." "If anyone else had just made that comment it would have been annoying and weird. But when you say it it's adorable and funny." Nolan has stolen my heart right from Tyler's hands. Tyler didn't see it coming. My mom has even noticed how happy I am since I started talking to Nolan. She knows about him, she knows how I have a major crush on him. He's good for me, he really is. I can't help but fall for him.

Conversation 3: Adam is a really great friend. But that's all he is. A friend. And that is all he will ever be. He's Nolan's best friend. He told me that he likes me. Which is flattering, but I obviously don't feel the same.

Dilemma, yes? Tyler misunderstood me and thinks I still like him. Nolan doesn't know I like him (But I've been dropping major hints) Adam just likes me and knows I don't feel the same.

Scenario 1: Autumn dates Nolan. Tyler is pissed, Adam is pissed, at Nolan. Tyler is all 'WTF? She likes me!" Adam's all "WTF NOLAN? We are BROS! Bro's before HOES!" because Adam would.

Scenario 2: Autumn dates Nolan, but tells Tyler what's going on. Tyler is still pissed and never talks to Autumn again, which sucks. I still want to be friends, and I see no reason why we can't be. Adam is still pissed at Nolan.

Scenario 3: Autumn doesn't date Nolan, and Autumn is sad. :(

Ugh, boys are confusing. I don't even know if Nolan likes me, I'm just hoping with all of my might that he is. <3

(Oh wait, maybe I should change Jesse's girl to Nolan's girl and Adam can sing it now.)

Arantor
June 26th, 2010, 05:58 PM
Ouch, tough situation..

Well if you like Nolan, then you should talk to him about-everything. Talk to him, find out if he likes, if he does then you'll have to talk to him about the consequences of you two having a relationship.

There's not much else you can do, seems to me like your stuck in quite a love triangle.

AutumnDae
June 28th, 2010, 09:17 AM
^^ Thanks, I really appreciate it.

Tyler isn't an issue anymore, he basically accused me of liking someone else while we were still talking. He texted me and said "So what? You like Nolan now?" and I decided to come straight out with it and say "Tyler, yeah, I'm not going to lie, I do like him. I didn't mean to hurt you, and I'm really sorry that I didn't tell you sooner. I kept getting lost when trying to tell you. I still think you're a really awesome person, I really want to be friends." and all he answered was "It's whatever."

Adam was with Nolan last night, so maybe they talked things over. They were also talking to me, so maybe Adam realizes. Actually, maybe I'll just tell Adam, he's honestly the most chill person that I really know, so he will be fine. We're too good of friends to lose eachother over this.

xJarbear
June 30th, 2010, 03:08 AM
well I'm 13 and I have adams situation... She is one of my best friends but I have also liked her for about 2 years now and I'm pretty sure she is starting to fall for me I mean at one point she told me she was but that's not the point ... What I think is that you should give it some time and if you really really like him go for nolan I mean she dated one of my best fraiends and I didn't make a big deal at all but then again I am the type of person that understands people and listens so idk but give in to your heart I hope it helps I went off track a few times but I hope it helps