some people don't understand

[natt]

i'm sick of everyone forcing me to eat!
so what if iv'e lost weight so what if i dont have healthy eatiing habbits, i just feeel like people are trying to jump food down my throat some times.
i feel sick when i eat a lot of food, and i'm just not hungry a lot,
i feel like i'm walking on egg shells and trying to please people but i'm terrified of eating too much food, of putting on weight it scares me so much
but i don't know how to tell them this aswell as everything thats going on i feel like everythings coming at me from all sides :(

[Obscene Eyedeas]

i'm sick of everyone forcing me to eat!

Maybe they're doing that because they care. I don't think there is any other reason why they would hun. I really think they just care.

so what if iv'e lost weight so what if i dont have healthy eatiing habbits, i just feeel like people are trying to jump food down my throat some times.

Then just say no if you don't want to eat. But yes you do have a problem and should eat. Losing weight is serious and a fear of gaining weight can be crippling and cause future problems including the inability to have kids and anemia.

i feel sick when i eat a lot of food, and i'm just not hungry a lot,

You're body has become used to being deprived and that is never good, its used to surviving on a minimal amount of food but that is not a good thing, you need to push the limits of your consumption.

i feel like i'm walking on egg shells and trying to please people but i'm terrified of eating too much food, of putting on weight it scares me so much

How're you walking on eggshells? By eating? At the end of the day what can they do? Nothing unless they're willing to put a tube down your throat medically and force you to eat which i doubt they would. They're trying to help you hun don't see it as an attack please for your own sake embrace the help.

but i don't know how to tell them this aswell as everything thats going on i feel like everythings coming at me from all sides :(

Hun take each problem as it comes. Just deal with this for now. Maybe write them a letter or email telling them how bad things have gotten for you and then they can help you in a more productive way.

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

I totally understand were ur comming from! People are always at me about how I should eat, so I dont get sick ect. I cant even go a day without someone commenting on my eatting habbits, its frustrating because they just dont get it. I feel like im being surrounded by everyone, and they wont back off until I give them what they want...But I cant. Almost everyone in my family is obese so it doesnt help that the food their trying to cram down my throat is disgustingly grease covered & deep fried twice over.

[natt]

thanks for some of the facts i guess you don't realise whats going on inside you untill someone actually tells you whats going on,


and i totally agree about feeding the bad greasy food it makes me feel ill and i refuse to eat it, but i'm living somewhere else now and there's a chef in the house so fingers crossed i'll be eating vegetables in stead of grease, i used to have to cook alot of my own meals at home whenever i got too hungry and i always insisted on fresh ingredients otherwise it was a complete nono!
x

[rogerjack]

It is really one of them nice post. Some people can't understand others feeling these is not so good habits you have to understand others feeling which can be special for you and also some of thing which can be heard for the feelings.