Have any of you ever been cheated on with 1 of your best friends?

[infra_red]

Well 1 of my best mates has gone behind my back...felt my gf up and she sed that she loves him...now let me ask u all this...wat would u do in my situation ROBIN? :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

[Makod]

Well 1 of my best mates has gone behind my back...felt my gf up and she sed that she loves him...now let me ask u all this...wat would u do in my situation ROBIN?

I'd forget about it and move on, most relationships are doomed from the start.

Edit: who is Robin? lol

[Glasgow]

I'd forget about it and move on, most relationships are doomed from the start.

Edit: who is Robin? lol

Thats a stupid answer, not most relationship, some relationships. And yea that sorta happened to me, although her new guy isnt my friend really. I just spazzed out sorta and now were friends again i guess

[Makod]

Heh ok how about most teenage relationships are doomed from the start?

[Glasgow]

Heh ok how about most teenage relationships are doomed from the start?

Hmm. Thats abit better ;)

[Makod]

Yeah thats what i meant in the first place, teens normally don't know what they want out of "love."

[mRojas2000]

Yeah thats what i meant in the first place, teens normally don't know what they want out of "love."
Well... I'm pretty sure I ask someone out if I really love them... I just don't look at her ass, and her curves and say "DAMN look at that, I'm going to ask her out"
Hell no! To me, a girlfriend has to be someone I care about, someone I love more than anyone else, someone I can't take out of my head no matter how, someone I can talk with, if I have problems, and I can trust them... I can keep going on and on, but thats enough...
Most teenagers do look physically at girls... others don't! In america I had this girlfriend, who wasn't the big thing (other people would be like "Miguel, how are you going out with THAT girl??" or like "She's so damn ugly" but I didn't give a shit...), I mean, to me she was really cute, and beautiful, but why? because she was my girl. I couln't stop thinking about her, I could spend hours worrying about this little damn detail... then writing her notes, and songs... same was with other girlfriends, but this was the most passionate I ever had... of course we split because, well, I could feel she wasn't really in love with me... it did hurt, but hey, what can I do? lat thing I want its hurt me more than ever, for example cheating on me... well so I just let her go...

[infra_red]

Well... I'm pretty sure I ask someone out if I really love them... I just don't look at her ass, and her curves and say "DAMN look at that, I'm going to ask her out"
Hell no! To me, a girlfriend has to be someone I care about, someone I love more than anyone else, someone I can't take out of my head no matter how, someone I can talk with, if I have problems, and I can trust them... I can keep going on and on, but thats enough...
Most teenagers do look physically at girls... others don't! In america I had this girlfriend, who wasn't the big thing (other people would be like "Miguel, how are you going out with THAT girl??" or like "She's so damn ugly" but I didn't give a shit...), I mean, to me she was really cute, and beautiful, but why? because she was my girl. I couln't stop thinking about her, I could spend hours worrying about this little damn detail... then writing her notes, and songs... same was with other girlfriends, but this was the most passionate I ever had... of course we split because, well, I could feel she wasn't really in love with me... it did hurt, but hey, what can I do? lat thing I want its hurt me more than ever, for example cheating on me... well so I just let her go...


its just that i lost my virginity 2 this girl and she means oads 2 me...we hav been 2getha 4 2 years and i found out this...it is realli confusin as i have dun nuthin rong...found out tho that the boy my old best mate tried feeling her up prop :O:mad:

[mr_smite1]

Well sorri luke for trying 2 make friends then finding out tht she has been having feelings for my for a little while, then slightly indulging my need just by touching her ass once in the cinema! Geez u have read 2 deep into it. It was a one off, and she neva stopped talk about u :(

[infra_red]

Well sorri luke for trying 2 make friends then finding out tht she has been having feelings for my for a little while, then slightly indulging my need just by touching her ass once in the cinema! Geez u have read 2 deep into it. It was a one off, and she neva stopped talk about u :(

yeah but this still doesnt excuse the fact that u did it...if u'd have said what u intend to do or what you did do as soon as u did it...i would prob let her go and be happy but you shouldnt have gon behind my back like that...my 2 year relationship in tatters now

[mr_smite1]

well im sorry, but i believe in non-monogumus relationships so 2 me it wasnt a big deal!

[infra_red]

well im sorry, but i believe in non-monogumus relationships so 2 me it wasnt a big deal!

but didnt u think bout me...ur mate...n how it would effect mine and stacey's relationship...i would never do sumthing like that

[mr_smite1]

2 b honest. i did. But nothing serious happened, it was just a *little* harmless grope. I have done more with u!

[infra_red]

2 b honest. i did. But nothing serious happened, it was just a *little* harmless grope. I have done more with u!

yea but the thing is...we were messin round and u tried 2 go further aswel...u would have done if stacey let u but glad she never...imagine how our friendship wud be then...at the moment i am so ashamed of you and have a low opinion of u that u dnt believe

[mr_smite1]

well if u just want truth, i used 2 b quite attracted 2 u. seriously. But since times have changed i have moved on, ye i do like ur gf, she is rele nice. But come on. She would rather u on top of her than me. Just seriously look at me!

[infra_red]

well if u just want truth, i used 2 b quite attracted 2 u. seriously. But since times have changed i have moved on, ye i do like ur gf, she is rele nice. But come on. She would rather u on top of her than me. Just seriously look at me!

yea wateva but that doesnt excuse the fact that u tried it on wit her...n still u hav the courage 2 ask 2 take her out again...i really didnt think u were like this...i trusted you 2 go out wit my gf along and you just took advantage of the gesture...well you have ruined it for yourself and mayb me and stacey...i hope your happy

[mr_smite1]

nope im not happy. I am at a relel low point in my life atm, and when stacey sed she liked me it sorta gave me a boost in confidence. Every day i put on a shell of cheery goodnes, but wen i get home, well lets just say i have cried myself to sleep many times in the past couple of weeks

[infra_red]

nope im not happy. I am at a relel low point in my life atm, and when stacey sed she liked me it sorta gave me a boost in confidence. Every day i put on a shell of cheery goodnes, but wen i get home, well lets just say i have cried myself to sleep many times in the past couple of weeks

yeah...welcome too my life...i told u bout my uncle didnt i...well he escaped from hosp again last nite n took a pack of paracetemol and 3 weeks worth of anti-depressant...and on top of all this...i bet i could match ur low point

[mr_smite1]

u would prob b surprised. I have so many secrets and i have so much pain anger and anguish. I have 2 go 2 english now, but now u got me thinkin of my dad :'(

[*Dissident*]

hey, guys, calm down. frmo what it sounds like, you two are best friends. So, smite touched your girls ass. big deal. he cant un touch it, and he is really sorry about it. it was his mistake, yea, and he shouldnt have done it. but im sure that if whe went out with you for 2 years and had sex with you, a little ass groping from your friend wont change her mind about you.

[mr_smite1]

he does mind, on msn she basically sed she loved me and tht she would give him up for me. But i sed no. Now luke has started to tell people i forced myself upon her and ried 2 kiss her, he has also delted me from her conact book and forbode me 2 contact her in any way. I was finally having a good frienship with a girl, and now it is spoilt :(

[infra_red]

he does mind, on msn she basically sed she loved me and tht she would give him up for me. But i sed no. Now luke has started to tell people i forced myself upon her and ried 2 kiss her, he has also delted me from her conact book and forbode me 2 contact her in any way. I was finally having a good frienship with a girl, and now it is spoilt :(

well u cnt blame me 4 that n if people ask...i am only going to tell the truth...and it turns out 2 be a lil more than ass groping...what he actually did was put his arm around her n move it 2 her ass...then wit his other hand...work his way up her leg...up 2 her (u kno) n she moved it...shortly after...he tried again and she removed it again but still let him feel her ass...later when they were outside sitting by the tennis court...he leant in to kiss her and she moved away but i was told by my gf that that happened just before i came to meet them and none of them told me...anyway...turns out she said that she loved him on msn a day or 2 later but i still need 2 check up on how she would give me up 4 him...I seriously am disappointed in smite and cnt believe he wud do it...and do you blame me for asking her to delete your addy...anyway, how do you know about that, robin? take it you have spoken to her since the unfortunate incident you have landed yourself in...i thought i can get on with my life with stacey...but if i find out that she was willing to leave me for u...then i will come down on you both like a tonne of bricks and mine n stacey's relationship will be at ur fault so b prepared 2 suffer the consequences as you have made your first real mistake :mad:

[mr_smite1]

I like what you have put, an and infra i havent been in contact but i have sources