I Thought We Were Close..

[Froath]

To keep a long story short, me and a friend(female) have been with each other for three years already. We were able to trust each other, talk and what not.

But lately I feel like she has been avoiding me. When she asks to talk to someone its never me, she always ask her other friend, even though shes more close with me. Whenever she logs on in a chat room, she would never start a conversation, and if we do talk I always have to start it, and its always small talk. Then she always logs off a couple minutes after we spoken, its been liek this for awhile. At school, she is fine, we talk, we laugh, we hang out. But even so, at school she never talks to me about serious things. She said I was one of her best friends, and although it came right from her mouth I really doubt she means it.

I want to speak to her about this, but If I do she will take it the wrong way and think that I am being oversensitive, then it will just be awkward between us. I dont know what to do.., should i ignore this or.. should I do something about it. :confused:

[Continuum]

Sigh. Same thing for me. We don't talk to each other much, and she seems to be ignoring me. We have our bad times, especially if I piss her off I cry. We rarely look at each other too, it seems our former look at each other diminished. Nevertheless, she is still in my roster of friends. You should try and talk to her, in serious. It might be a phase and she just want to be with other friends. Wait, are you my alter ego?

PM me if you need a talk.

[Froath]

Its different, she doesnt want to see other friends, I mean we do have our good times. But she never talks about anything serious to me, I mean if I wanted to tell her something serious I could go to her. But she never tells me anything serious.. not just that but on online chat rooms as well

[Continuum]

Then it's just that. Maybe you prove to be too playful when it comes to serious topics, example: Someone dies, then you joke around when you talk about that person.

OR You did something to make you unsuitable for it.

Next time you talk to her, don't be afraid of a simple "Don't Go" then ask. I knew it, my friends different in some way. I thought we were in the same situation :P