How turn straight.

[kevin14]

Hey, everybody my name's Kevin well thing is I want to be straight and turn out straight have a wife kids and when I grow up. But, I think I may be bi the thing is I get turned on when I see a guy with a boner rubbing a girl's butt, but, I also got a boner when I saw two wwe wrestlers Brock Lesnar and Kurt Angle kiss on stage for some reason I got turned on by that. I really want to be straight. Really bad is there any way I can be straight any way at all. Praying anything and don't say I can't cause I don't want to hear that. I believe in myself and I can turn straight if I work hard enough and give it over to God. I just want to know how I can change myself cause I believe with the Lord's help anything is possible. Any helped would be appreciated. But, I'm not sure if I'm Bi or not I think it's just a phase from the hormones and all that. But, I want to be sure are there any suggestion I was more turned on by the wrestlers then, the girl please anybody give me any suggestion. I think I might be curious. I jerked off the wrestlers and guy rubbing the girls butt am I straight or bi or curious or is this all just a phase?

Also can some explain to me what curious means I don't see myself dating a dude and all that I only see my self with a girl/woman in the future.

P.S I've never done anything sexual outside masturbation no experimenting no sex with either sex nothing with any family members or friends. I was just turned on by the kiss and muscles(I think?) nothing like a big emotional connection and all that.

I'm 14-years-old

[Zazu]

You can't turn yourself straight. Your sexuality is something over which you have no control.

Just stop worrying about it and you will eventually discover who you are. Whatever the outcome, you're still a human being. Nothing's changed.

[Contra]

Exactly, you can't be straight just because you want.
The boners you get with gay stuff are just a result of your hormones. You're a teen, and practically anything remotely linked to sex turns you on, so you shouldn't worry about it yet.
Besides, your sexuality is not only linked to your sexual attraction, but to your emotional attraction too, so you can be sexually attracted to a guy, but that doesn't necessarily make you gay. You should wait to see how your emotions turn out to be.
I used to have the same doubts as you do, but since then, I have been feeling an emotional attachment to a girl, even though some gay stuff may turn me on too.

Good luck :)

[The Dark Lord]

you can't turn straight, you are either straight or gay and you can't change that

[Captor K]

If there was an instruction manual on how to turn straight, a good portion of the gays and bi's would have turned back long ago. That being said, many of us have come to accept it and we are proud of who we are.

You're young. Here's my advice: stop fighting yourself. It will make matters worse. I fought/prayed about it for years--I repeat, YEARS. It's not healthy. Speaking of God, He does NOT have a problem with your sexuality, man does. Man is less important than God. So relax. You're good.

It's possible this is all a phase. It's also possible that it's not. Freaking out won't accomplish anything. Time will tell, but you, and everyone else in your shoes, will be okay in the long run.

[kevin14]

Woah! Guys I'm not one of those guys who have experimented with other guys and I've never had sexual relation with either sex I've never even watch porn. I just want to make sure I turn out straight when I grow up I have nothing against bi or gay people but, I defiantly do not want to be one or grow up to be one.

[The Joker]

Woah! Guys I'm not one of those guys who have experimented with other guys and I've never had sexual relation with either sex I've never even watch porn. I just want to make sure I turn out straight when I grow up I have nothing against bi or gay people but, I defiantly do not want to be one or grow up to be one.

If you are gay, you are gay. There is no way to change it.

There's no way to make sure you are straight.

[Jamie]

You're at least half queer to be physically attracted to another man, god can't help you.

[karl]

It doesn't matter if you are bi or gay. It's what you are. But you certainly wouldn't be the first gay guy (bi) to get married and have kids

[Shortkid]

I'd say just relax about it. I herd someone say that "what you resist, persists" and I think that is generally true. Like you say, just give it over to God. Just think of yourself as growing up straight with a wife and kids and all that and it will happen.

Just remember to never look down on those that are gay.

Chris

[strata8]

Why can't you have a wife and kids if you're bi? I'm having a bit of trouble understanding your reasoning here..

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

Are u sure that u want the whole wife & kids thing, or is it that people are making u think that this is what u want? U cant become something. Ur born gay,straight, bi or other. It sounds to me that ur unsure about ur sexuality. U can pretend to be straight and deny what u feel, yes. But would u really want to live like that? Doesnt seem like that`d be to happy for u. Whats so bad about being gay or bi? I think instead of trying to force urself into being straight and block out any other answer u should stop and think about things. Maybe do some searching on the web before u can know for certain that ur not straight? Its normal to question ur sexuality. If u wanna talk, feel free to pm me.

[marcos]

if your bi your bi... just enjoy how you feel. i know it may sound hard to do this while your young and at school which was just like me but once you leave school you cant help it well i cant (18 btw)

[billium183]

you cud just be curious..and if your all into god, and religious and stuff..and bi..then just act upon the side that likes girls..even if inside you know your bi, but u dont act upon that side of yourself..im sure your not religiously doing anything wrong

[burnout]

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[Jess]

don't worry about it. you may be bi, but you can't change that. you can still have a wife and kids

[CaptainObvious]

Woah! Guys I'm not one of those guys who have experimented with other guys and I've never had sexual relation with either sex I've never even watch porn. I just want to make sure I turn out straight when I grow up I have nothing against bi or gay people but, I defiantly do not want to be one or grow up to be one.

None of that has anything to do with anything. Sexuality is who you are attracted to, it is not determined by whether you watch porn or experiment, though those things may be evidence of what sexuality you are. And,a s others have said you can't change your sexuality. If you don't want to hear that... well, you're shit outta luck, sorry.

As has also been pointed out, being bisexual doesn't mean you must have sex with guys or something like that. You could have a wife and kids and never do a single sexual thing with a guy and still be bisexual.

[Skeln]

Does it really matter if you're bi? I can understand your reasoning...sort of...and I see no reason as to why you cannot lead the life you want to. If you have attractions to both sexes, then that's fine. Get married and have kids (with a woman) and that's that. If you have any honor, then you'll be loyal to her and will never have any relations with another man what-so-ever. It will be like any normal marriage, with the usual temptations and the usual problems, but it's 100% possible for things to turn out perfectly.

[windza]

hi when i first found out i was bi i was pretty much the same as u are, trying to force my way out of it but i realized it will never work you are who you are. and i now realize that it doesn't rly matter just go with it and see what happens i like men and women but i still want to get married to a woman and have kids so guess that will probably happen but who knows what the futcher will bring

[Ryhanna]

To be honest I think you just need to give yourself time.

It really sounds like your just aroused by hormones, as you say you got turned on by some wrestlers kissing... I think you just need to stop stressing over it :)

[HelloWorld123456]

You dont decide these things, and there is nothing you can do about it if you turn out to be one.

The only way to know what you are, is the experiment with both sexes, and compare with whom you think you'll be more comfortable with.

[kevin14]

I'd say just relax about it. I herd someone say that "what you resist, persists" and I think that is generally true. Like you say, just give it over to God. Just think of yourself as growing up straight with a wife and kids and all that and it will happen.

Just remember to never look down on those that are gay.

Chris

Thanks for the kind words I thought over it. I really don't have a attraction to boys or girls I think. I got turned on by the girls butt, being rubbed but, for some reason I'm not turned on by the wrestlers kiss anymore strange I think I lost the attraction to wrestlers in all. Cause, I never could see myself Kissing a dude, having sex with a dude, bj and handjobs it just seems digusting kind of now. I know this sounds weird but, I'm attracted to fingernails on guys and not one's on girls. But, I am attracted to girl's butts though the thought of me having anal sex with a girl looks good. But, I think I may be a asexual person a person who has no desire for sex with hormones and puberty and all that I think I'm safe and am gonna focus on school. I just know one day I'm gonna meet the right girl for me thank you for the guidance God Bless you Chris I'm glad to get advice for someone my age and who understands. But, seems I've lost the sexual attraction and get hard ons over nothing now like nothing at all. I haven't even beat my meat in about 2 weeks and I just don't want to and have no disare to thanks for the guidance I just know one day I'll get my girl. I'm not attracted to even getting or receiving a bj from either sex i just have a weak attraction toward anal sex with a girl. Again, thanks for the guidance.

[TheFame]

If god made you this way while would he change you?

Praying to turn straight when your gay

Is like praying to be Hot when your ugly.

[Jamie]

Yeah... your attractions don't suddenly change in 14 days, kiddo.

[BlizzKid]

I am confused as to why as bi person cant have a wife and children... Just because you are bi doesnt mean you cant... Bi means they like both. So you could marry some drop dead looking woman and have 5 children or some steaming sexy man and adopt.

And you cant change your genetics. You cant change who you are. You are you and if you don't get over it then you are in for a real shocker. And if you want a bilbical view on this here it is. The bible doesnt look down on gay people. It, apparently according to my pastor, looks down on the acts. So just don't act on your gay feelings. Happy? You better because if you don't start execpting yourself now, than you are introuble.

I'm sorry. Within 14 days, you are lying to yourself about you "changing". Kid, listen ACCEPT IT!"

[fleia262]

Hey! Sorry I'm a little late posting this reply to your question.

You absolutely CAN change your sexual preference. I'm currently 17 years old, and I've spent a lot of time researching homosexuality in the Holy Bible. I'm gay, and you can imagine how much Christianity frowns upon such things. I'm in the process of trying not to be into that kind of stuff. Unlike you, I've had a bit of experience with other guys.

You're still young! These feelings probably are going to go away as you get older. I'm my case, I don't get turned on by girls. The way I'm trying to do it is by convincing myself that sex is for having children… period. Just try not jacking-off too much. This may still be difficult… likely unrealistic even. You're a teanager… a hormone crazed, sex craving teenager with a perpetual boner.

Try and try and try, that's all I can suggest. It's super hard… and I'm having a hard time with it too. Don't be discouraged by all these people telling you about how it's not possible to be straight again. If you're straight, you're constantly horny and thinking about girls all the time. Just don't think about either one too much.

I feel like I'm talking about my personal situation here. For you, just try and try and try. That is all I can suggest. It's going to be downright difficult, but you can do it!

If you have any questions whatsoever, I'm an open book, kid, haha.

Sincerely,
Andrew Fleisher

[Luminous]

Hey! Sorry I'm a little late posting this reply to your question.

You absolutely CAN change your sexual preference. I'm currently 17 years old, and I've spent a lot of time researching homosexuality in the Holy Bible. I'm gay, and you can imagine how much Christianity frowns upon such things. I'm in the process of trying not to be into that kind of stuff. Unlike you, I've had a bit of experience with other guys.

You're still young! These feelings probably are going to go away as you get older. I'm my case, I don't get turned on by girls. The way I'm trying to do it is by convincing myself that sex is for having children… period. Just try not jacking-off too much. This may still be difficult… likely unrealistic even. You're a teanager… a hormone crazed, sex craving teenager with a perpetual boner.

Try and try and try, that's all I can suggest. It's super hard… and I'm having a hard time with it too. Don't be discouraged by all these people telling you about how it's not possible to be straight again. If you're straight, you're constantly horny and thinking about girls all the time. Just don't think about either one too much.

I feel like I'm talking about my personal situation here. For you, just try and try and try. That is all I can suggest. It's going to be downright difficult, but you can do it!

If you have any questions whatsoever, I'm an open book, kid, haha.

Sincerely,
Andrew Fleisher

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