View Full Version : Bi or Bicurrrious?
punkjake
June 24th, 2010, 09:51 PM
I have strong physical feelings to guys,half the time,and i jack off to a certain kind of porn :rolleyes: and i find girls physically pretty too,but here's the twist ,i also find girls emotionally/mentally attractive and i can see myself marrying a girl,I don't find guys the slightest bit of emotionally attractive and can't comfortably find myself marrying a guy. So what am?Can you just be physically attracted to guys w/o being bi?
billium183
June 25th, 2010, 02:37 PM
that is exactly how i feel..idk if its curious..i know that im attracted, "physically" to guys..but i wud never want to be in a relationship with one...im pretty sure i know exactly wut u mean
Harley Quinn
June 25th, 2010, 02:45 PM
you can yeah, i would probably just call it hormones or curiosity. i don't think you're bi or anything like that, just a teenager experiencing hormones, which i can guarantee a lot of people have been where you are, and its simply because of puberty, so i really wouldn't worry about it, cause you have plenty of time left to 'label' yourself
Antares
June 25th, 2010, 02:48 PM
I understand exactly to the very detail what you mean.
Im just not sure though, I say just label yourself as Jakeosexual :D
Captor K
June 25th, 2010, 02:51 PM
Sounds bicurious--though in my opinion, there's a thin line between bicurious and bisexual, seeing as you can't really help who you'll love. At any rate, don't let yourself get too worked up over the whole idea. Explore (safely). Sexuality changes more than some people recognize.
CaptainObvious
June 25th, 2010, 03:22 PM
Most people who are sexually attracted more than incidentally to both genders but have difficult getting their head around the idea of a same sex relationship are just having difficulty getting over societal conditioning, and are bisexual. You're in the same situation. That doesn't mean you can't marry a woman and have children.
punkjake
June 26th, 2010, 12:57 AM
I've tried it a lot to think how good it would be to date a guy,i just can't find anything good about it ,or i would like bout it
Dara
June 26th, 2010, 08:30 AM
Don't be in a rush to label yourself - you still have plenty of time to sort out your feelings. However, David's right in that most people are really just afraid to realize the truth and come to terms with how they really feel.
It may just be curiosity, but it also may not be. Just because you may turn out to be bisexual doesn't mean you won't be able to have a family and marry a woman. This emotionally attracted stuff though...I'm not sure what this has to do with it. Sexuality has to do with who you want to fuck, not who you want to date.
punkjake
June 26th, 2010, 11:20 PM
that's it ,I actually just really like the way a thing looks...and a certain kinda of porn.But i would not wan tto date a guy,i already like this one girl...I've known her for years so its kinda a love but she'll go out with me then reject me and go with a other dude,so maybe it's a insecurity i have in my sub-conscience.Or I'm just bi :P
XxMurderedKissesxX
June 29th, 2010, 08:29 PM
Theres more then one kind of attraction. Emotional, sexual, and physical. U shouldnt worry about labels right now, instead try and figure out ur feelings. In normal to question ur sexuality. Answers dont always come right away. No matter what anyone tells u, at the end of the day, its what feels right to u thats importent.
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