View Full Version : does he like me - guys please answer!
wahoogirl11
June 23rd, 2010, 10:14 PM
Okay so theres this guy that I really need some advice on...I really like him but i have no idea if he likes me or not. My friends think he does, but I'm not sure.
We actually have a lot in common, and he can make me laugh. He only answers my texts about half of the time. When he does, we can talk forever but when he doesnt, it just makes he feel like he really isnt interested. If i invite him somewhere, he always shows, but he doens't usually stay very long. He also acts bored, but i can almost tell that he's faking it. He'll give off little smiles that make you think he's really enjoying himself.
Anyways, I would definately count us as friends, but i just want to let you know if he could be more than that. just let me know your opinion on the situation! thanks :)
markayy
June 25th, 2010, 04:50 AM
Okay so theres this guy that I really need some advice on...I really like him but i have no idea if he likes me or not. My friends think he does, but I'm not sure.
We actually have a lot in common, and he can make me laugh. He only answers my texts about half of the time. When he does, we can talk forever but when he doesnt, it just makes he feel like he really isnt interested. If i invite him somewhere, he always shows, but he doens't usually stay very long. He also acts bored, but i can almost tell that he's faking it. He'll give off little smiles that make you think he's really enjoying himself.
Anyways, I would definately count us as friends, but i just want to let you know if he could be more than that. just let me know your opinion on the situation! thanks :)
Hey sweetie.
Is he a quite guy ? Like, is he shy ? Because that could be the reason he doesn't stay with you for long. Because when i go to see my girlfriend and she's around her friends ( Im assuming you're with other people ? ), i don't talk, and i probably seem very bored, but im just shy. So maybe that's the case with him? And about the text thing... I'm gonna be honest, i'm like that too sometimes. I only ever answer texts from my girlfriend every time, but sometimes i just ignore texts.
I hope this helped :)
The Redlight Bandit
June 25th, 2010, 05:47 AM
He probably doesn't know what he wants.
Nihilus
June 25th, 2010, 06:25 AM
Hey sweetie.
Is he a quite guy ? Like, is he shy ? Because that could be the reason he doesn't stay with you for long. Because when i go to see my girlfriend and she's around her friends ( Im assuming you're with other people ? ), i don't talk, and i probably seem very bored, but im just shy. So maybe that's the case with him? And about the text thing... I'm gonna be honest, i'm like that too sometimes. I only ever answer texts from my girlfriend every time, but sometimes i just ignore texts.
I hope this helped :)
Yeah, he's probably shy. Keep hanging out with him and it may become more apparent. Just keep being around him and if you like him try asking him out. Theres nothing wrong with that.
The Dark Lord
June 28th, 2010, 10:23 AM
He might just be shy and awkward. The fact that he texts you for long periods and has a lot in common with you suggests that he does want to be with you but it is maybe a little awkward. Ask your friend why she thinks he likes you cos if she has heard that from someone else then he probably does
eltomo
June 28th, 2010, 05:00 PM
If you like him then you ask him out.
Jess
June 28th, 2010, 08:01 PM
hmmm keep hanging out with him, and maybe then try to ask him out. hope he says yes. :)
Baits
June 28th, 2010, 08:08 PM
As it was mentioned before, he just sounds shy. I'm shy myself when I'm with my friend and she's with her friends. It sounds like he does like you though, because he's putting forth the effort to actually show up when you invite him out, and he doesn't make an excuse to not show. You also said you two can talk for long periods of time, and you have a lot in common. Just ask him out and see what happens.
msp2626
June 29th, 2010, 02:38 AM
i agree that he might be shy and im also gonna be honest a lot of guys dont txt back half the time because mayne we are busy, or in a bad mood, or just dont want to talk to anybody at the moment. i didnt txt my girfriend back half the time and she did it to me sometimes too its normal for guys not to txt back
wahoogirl11
July 12th, 2010, 04:55 PM
Guys, I know its been a little while, but thank you so much for your advice :) its been helpful and made me realize that i don't really have anything to lose
i'm hanging out with him tonight! :)
aaronbrumbrum22
July 12th, 2010, 05:26 PM
Great!!! good to hear from you and good luck with tonight!
wahoogirl11
July 12th, 2010, 08:35 PM
Thanks...it was really fun:)
walpoler93
July 12th, 2010, 08:42 PM
you can ask him out, lol, i think girls can ask guys out if they reely want to
steve1234
July 13th, 2010, 04:37 AM
Yeah, It shouldn't always be left up to the guy.
If you want to know if he likes you or not, you can ask him out then you can know for sure!
If he doesn't like you, then it looks like you have a good friendship to fall back on.
Good luck.
devilsheep
July 15th, 2010, 01:04 AM
He probably doesn't know what he wants.
This exactly
cheetopuff
July 15th, 2010, 12:21 PM
congrats! hope you get something good out of it :)
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