Question..

[Breakit]

So there is this one girl that I like and I don't really know if she likes me, it seem like it though and this other person is telling me that she does.. This person is also being like "ASK HER OUT ASK HER OUT!"
I kinda want to but I really don't know how to go about doing that.. I've never really done that before.. soo.. suggestions.. :-)
Oh and I don't really want to just be like "will you go out with me." I want it to be creative lol (if that's possibe)
The next time I'm going to see her is Saturday at some Firework show thing.
So if I could get an answer before then that would be great.

[Aspiringanonymous]

If you want to avoid being cliche, then be natural. Do the two of you hang out alone often? This, I am often told, is an advisable starting point - spend some quality time together as friends, make conversation and try to determine areas of common interest. Leisurely walks in the park, or frequenting a local coffee shop, are good activities to undertake for this purpose. I've personally always liked the idea of casually popping up the question during a conversation; "hey, we've been hanging out a bit and I've had a good time, found out that we had a lot in common as well, I've really come to admire you during this time and I was wondering if you'd be interested in going steady with me?" .. something to that effect. But of course, everyone is different in what appeals to them best.

The most important thing, if you want this to be special, is to be patient and cultivate a meaningful friendship first. Of course, if you are good friends already, then you should be familiar with some of her likes and interests - use that knowledge to your advantage in formulating a creative, personalized approach. It certainly is possible to be creative, one just has to know the other well enough for ideas to flow naturally.

Best of luck to you.

[Art_dude]

Damn. I always feel so stupid replying to something after Maya's made a post XD She's always so thorough (bows down in adoration):rolleyes:

Pretty much ditto to what Maya said. If you want to avoid cliches, then you're going to need to invest some time in developing a friendship and finding out who she is as a person. And just one last bit of advice - I just read some dating/flirting article in a psychology magazine recently and it was about opening lines of introduction and their research showed that "hi" is the most effective introductory dating line. I know a lot of guys want to be 'creative' and avoid cliche dating proposals, but in all honesty that's exactly what girls want. They may claim that they want to see a guy be different (and although that may genuinely be true) a simple traditional "do you want to get a bite sometime?" question is always effective. (hey, it's been around since the dawn of time so there's gotta be something right with it!) Some girls may be put off by a creative proposal because if you don't know the person all that well, it shows you put a lot of time and effort into coming up with the idea which can appear too romantic or involved. Just a thought.

[rextoystory]

Ok, you could go the easy way and just ask her... but I see that's not what you want to do, right?

Well... I don't know about any creative stuff to ask her out... you could ask her at the firework thing you mentioned! yeah that's a good idea! ask her if she wants to go out with you during the fireworks... that's an option

if you want to get the answer before though... just ask her if she wants to go out, you could take her to the firework thing, very romantic or something besides that.. a movie, to the park, whatever you feel like :)

GOOD LUCK!!