View Full Version : My friends know.. but they dont even care anymore.
TheLovelyScars.x
June 22nd, 2010, 10:44 AM
My friends have known that i self harm for a while now, and they used to actually show their concerns about what i was doing to myself.. but i dont think they could care less anymore, its like since ive gotten worse they cant even be bothered to at least try and help me with stopping like they used to.
They stare at my arms all the time now as if they're trying to make me feel bad about what im doing & they hardly even bother asking me how im feeling.
I dont know why i bothered even writing this, but im just not happy at all right now.
Feeling rather blue and hopeless :/
xx
1_21Guns
June 22nd, 2010, 10:51 AM
Hun, i'm sure they still care.
They're just too tired to help, they don't know what to do anymore.
I've recently been in a similiar situation from both angles, the helper and the reciever.
You get tired. You don't know what to say or do anymore.
Because you start to feel like nothing you say or do works.
They still care hun, the fact they do still ask shows that.
They probably stare, because they hate watching you do this to yourself.
Just how would you feel if you saw your cuts on them?
Theres always hope hun, never ever lose it.
VM me if you need someone to talk to.
MadManWithaBox
June 22nd, 2010, 10:53 AM
They still care. They just don't know what to say. Its a difficult subject to approach and discuss. They do care, they want to help, but they don't know what to say. Trust me.
Mike321
June 22nd, 2010, 02:12 PM
As the others have said, they do still care, its just that this is a hard things for them to help with as they probably dont really know what to say to you. I'm sure they do want to help you, they just cant think of the right things to say.
Its hard helping someone who SH's, but dont loose help, they are still there for you, as are we on here
PM me anytime
xgeekyrocksx
June 22nd, 2010, 02:32 PM
all the othes have said this, and they do still care.
Maybe they want to talk about it but.. they feel worried and don't know how to aproach the conversation. Maybe with time you could open up properly to your closest friend. Although..thats fa easier said than done xx
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