View Full Version : who's right, my father or me
alexmagnus1001
June 22nd, 2010, 09:44 AM
is there anyone that still gets spanked at this age; i'm 17. i've tried to tell my father that i'm really too big for that since i was 15 or so, but the only thing that've changed is that it's not hand spanking on his lap anymore, but belting over some chair or whatever, always bare. he says a lot of my friends are disciplined in the same way, they just don't want to admit, but i don't think so. my brother is 15 and he get's it quite often. who's right, my father or me? where we live, spanking is legal.
Obscene Eyedeas
June 22nd, 2010, 09:50 AM
Moved from introductions :arrow: abuse
nick
June 22nd, 2010, 09:51 AM
He would most likely go to prison for that in England, its wrong in all sorts of ways, especially with the bare bottom business. Sounds pretty creepy to me. If it really is legal then I guess there's not much you can to about it. Might be worth talking to a school counsellor to check the situation though.
The Dark Lord
June 22nd, 2010, 09:53 AM
That is really weird, i'd speak to someone about it
ryker
June 22nd, 2010, 12:05 PM
You are definitely right. Fathers should never be like that. Try talk to someone about that.
iamniokekun
June 22nd, 2010, 01:09 PM
The average 17 year old does not get spanked as often as your dad says. Some still do, the majority of those don't get spanked bare though.
Another solution is to NOT get spanked. Just do your best and behave and eventually the spanking will stop. :3
Wadehampton
June 22nd, 2010, 04:27 PM
If your 17, don't you think you can overpower your father?
Edit: In all seriousness, don't let him spank you. You are 17, almost an adult according to the law, and you are still getting bare bottom spanked? You dad has a few nuts loose...
waffleguy
June 22nd, 2010, 11:11 PM
Where I live, it'd probably be reported as abuse. And no 17 (or 15 ) year old I know still gets punished like that, and there are 2400 students in my school.
Daniel_
June 23rd, 2010, 01:30 AM
Ha definitely you, I stopped getting spanked when I was like 8.
Kaya
June 23rd, 2010, 10:08 AM
I havent been spanked since I was 8.
CantBeTamed
June 23rd, 2010, 11:16 AM
you are totally right i would either stand up to him of talk to someone
MyNameIsJack
June 23rd, 2010, 12:24 PM
You are right, explain it to him.
BeautifulDisaster
June 23rd, 2010, 02:42 PM
That actually sounds perverse.
The Ninja
June 23rd, 2010, 02:47 PM
yeah talk to someone about it but since you're almost 18 i dont suggest trying to stand up to him physically cause he's gonna be able to kick you out soon
crimsonangel
June 23rd, 2010, 10:24 PM
Personally I believe that spanking you with a bare butt is illegal and immoral. Spanking is one thing but to have you exposed while doing so is crossing boundaries.
chloe
June 25th, 2010, 04:37 AM
Oh i just posted this in some other section. Frnkly its a relief to know someone else is also being spanked. But last time i was spanked was when i was 16. Bare bottom is to bad! My mom never does that, she just drops my pants or skirts but does not bare my bottom completely.
The Redlight Bandit
June 25th, 2010, 04:43 AM
You have to stand up to him, that's the only way you will fix this.
Soccerkix
July 6th, 2010, 08:13 PM
your 17 thats way too old, stand up to him
alexmagnus1001
July 11th, 2010, 10:18 AM
Thank you all for answering, but the situation is not that simple. I showed all this to my father and he just said it was all simply rubbish, and he does at his home what he believes is right, and its right that he spanks me an my brother the way he wants till we live in his house and he pays for our studies (and he is really generous with money). My brother is 15, spanked quite often, and I'll have to make choice either to leave and work or to continue studies and getting occasionally bare belted, sometimes even in front of my kid brother, or together with him. And my father is very big and strongman, used to play football and still very active, so no way I could fight with him.
Hayley
July 23rd, 2011, 04:46 PM
Where I live, children can be spanked as hard as the parents wish, as long as marks are mostly gone in an hour or two.
My parents are very strict about spanking, and our rule is as long as I live with them, I must abide by their rules. So even if I am twenty, and I break a rule, I'll get the belt.
I assume this is how it is where you live.
Donkey
July 23rd, 2011, 04:48 PM
Please don't bump old threads. :locked:
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