View Full Version : i don't know what to do..
Violetmonster
June 21st, 2010, 05:06 PM
i'm so down lately.
i've bee crying most of the night
i don't fit in anywhere anymore
i left my old group at school bcos i didn't feel i fit in.
i joined another group. but i feel unwanted there..
i no longer enjoy school. no one really wants to be close to me anymore.
plus people are just saying things and trying to upset me for fun i'm sure. bcos it seems to happen far too often. help :(
Scarface
June 21st, 2010, 06:41 PM
Everyone wants to feel accepted and loved in a group or anywhere. Just to be liked. Sometimes we can get mixed emotions or feelings/vibes from people that seem like they don't care. Or feelings from depression where you feel you should isolate and go on your own. Never feel like you have to do that.
It sounds to me like you may have depression. Did you enjoy school before? Symptoms can be loss of interest in things you customarily like, isolation. Maybe you should see a school counselor and talk to them about how you feel, it always feels good to talk to people about how you're feeling. It relieves some of those feelings.
As for your group of friends, maybe you might have felt disconnected from them. You could always try talking to them and hanging out. If not there are always new people to meet and friends to be made. As for the people making fun of you, I wouldn't let them bother you. The ones that tease and insult are usually insecure about themselves and take it out on others to make them feel bigger. If you know that these insults aren't true do not give them even the power of a thought. Don't let them get to you. I know it may be hurtful to hear those things, but they must be so miserable and have nothing else better to do. As this too shall pass.
If you ever need someone to talk to I'm always here VM me anytime. I hope things get better for you.
LoveMe_HateMe
June 22nd, 2010, 08:46 AM
I know eaxctly how you feel, I'm the same, just about, and I'm not just saying that for the sake of it. Not sure why I'm repllying really I have no advice to offer I do however know I jwant you to know your not alone in how you feel.
PM/VM anytime you want to talk or whatever :)
SneakBrain
June 22nd, 2010, 10:19 PM
i'm so down lately.
i've bee crying most of the night
i don't fit in anywhere anymore
i left my old group at school bcos i didn't feel i fit in.
i joined another group. but i feel unwanted there..
i no longer enjoy school. no one really wants to be close to me anymore.
plus people are just saying things and trying to upset me for fun i'm sure. bcos it seems to happen far too often. help :(
i feel u, and i know exactly what u mean, but dont worry someone will be there with u
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