The usual: Is He Gay??

[confusedboy]

Hello all! WOW, It's been a looong time since I've posted here.

So there's this guy in my gym period who I think might be gay/bi/curious. and these are my reasons why I believe he might be...


Through out the year I've caught him glancing at me a bunch.
You know how guys play around with other guys? Like a little slap here or there? Well, he takes it too far sometimes. Like full on wrestling and humping.
He has not just a couple but a lot of pictures on facebook doing (sorry to use this) gay things ex: All over guys, pretending to give head, shirt tied up-girl style.
Katy Perry's California Gurls FB statuses.
Etc, etc.


He's pretty cute yet clams to be stright. I want to talk to him and find out. Hopefully we can go on a date.... But what are your thoughts? What should I say?

[thepieman]

California girls, we're unforgettable... erm, sorry

If he's glancing at you there's a chance he could be gay, or just a little curious. I don't think you can tell just from the music, and he could still be fooling around with the shirt thing and the wrestling. But if he is glancing you he could be at least a little bit interested physically. I'd talk to him about it, not necessarily asking him if he's gay and if he fancies you, but by discussing his opinions on sexuality and just asking if he'd ever thought about being with another guy, that kind of thing.

Good luck, hope all goes well but don't hold your breath, everyone loves Katy Perry. :P

[confusedboy]

Thanks man! Yeah, a lot of people like Ms. Perry... I for one.

I saw him again today during our final <3. So cute & hot. He was all alone though for some reason, maybe he just doesn't have many friends in our class.

I think I'll send him a message on FB on Friday. I was just reading his comments on this one dudes status. It's all, "Come over to my house any time this summer" "Summer love" Blah Blah Blah lol. I hope he's interested :)

[polarbear]

he could just be seeing if ur stronger than himself, and with the other stuff he could just be joking around me and the other guys on the football team do that shit all the time (its funny the bigger the guys, the gayer they act lol)

[Iron Man]

Bah humbug. For your first reason, he could be curious. For the rest, he could have been just having fun. You could try asking him if he is in the least awkward way.

[confusedboy]

he could just be seeing if ur stronger than himself, and with the other stuff he could just be joking around me and the other guys on the football team do that shit all the time (its funny the bigger the guys, the gayer they act lol)

He does it too much though. Like more then guys usually do it haha.

But yeah, I'm messaging him on Monday :) !!