My boyfriend is always touching me in my lower areas. Im not used to it. How can i???

[Happycamper]

Hes always touching me there. I dont know how to handle it. plz help

[Dan_UK]

Well, if you don't want him to, tell him to slow it down a little, but you aren't making much sense in your post, are you saying you just don't like it, or that you aren't ready for that yet or what?

[Happycamper]

Like im not saying that i dont like it. he just started to touch me there and it was just wierd feeling

[Dan_UK]

Like im not saying that i dont like it. he just started to touch me there and it was just wierd feeling

Well it could be for different reasons

1) Just weird because it hasn't happened before and you'll get used to it pretty soon


If this, it depends on if/how much you masturbate which could affect how weird you find that

2)You don't feel ready yet (be it conciously or sub-conciously) in which case you need to tell/ask him to "slow it down for a while", because you and your body aren't ready for that sort of thing yet

[Happycamper]

Its #1 it hasnt happened to me before but thanx for helping

[Dan_UK]

Ok, so yeah if you don't masturbate at all/often then it may feel weird for a while, but if you have before a fair bit then you'll probably get used to it faster

[DeEnd]

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[Filipe]

A relationship is all about feeling comfortable with each other... If you feel forced.. The relationship is most likely to not last long...