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jinzo22
June 19th, 2010, 06:32 PM
I'm gay and I like one of my friends. I think he might also be be, and I was wondering if you would consider what he did the other night gay. Keep in mind there was a straight guy there the whole time.
I'm in the closet btw and no one would expect me to be gay, since I'm more masculine acting than most straight guys.

I hung out with him for the first time the other day, and there was a couple other straight guys there. I sat on the couch next to him and moved my upper arm up against his. He didn't pull away. A few seconds after I did that, he moved his leg over against mine so our thighs and lower leg were touching. We were both wearing shorts so part of our bare thighs were touching.
Now, I thought to myself, "what guy that wasn't sexually interested would do this, and not feel uncomfortable/pull away?" Then a few minutes later I got up to grab a drink and came and sat down. The same exact scenario happened again. We sat like this without moving for about 30 minutes until I had to leave, and he told me to sleep over, but I couldn't because my parents wanted me to come home that night.
When I was leaving, we shook hands and held each others hand for a lot longer than usual and slowly let go.

He's also never had a g/f and he's 17.

waffleguy
June 19th, 2010, 06:36 PM
Hmm it seems like a little too much to be a coincidence, but then again, it could be.

I think the next thing you should do is try and hang out with him some more and see what happens. Go about having that sleep over another night, and take it from there (but don't rush anything).

He might be gay, but he might also just be straight and curious.

jinzo22
June 19th, 2010, 08:23 PM
Hmm it seems like a little too much to be a coincidence, but then again, it could be.

I think the next thing you should do is try and hang out with him some more and see what happens. Go about having that sleep over another night, and take it from there (but don't rush anything).

He might be gay, but he might also just be straight and curious.

Yeah, I was pretty much thinking this. I'm pretty sure if there wasnt another guy over we would have ended up hooking up.

imcool_17
June 19th, 2010, 08:30 PM
yeah probably. just spin the night at his house when you can and see what happens. waffleguy is rite, he probably just wants to experiment it since he's never had a gf

LordOfTheToaster
June 19th, 2010, 08:35 PM
Just because he's never had a gf doens't make him gay. He did seem a bit physical in what he did. Try for a sleepover again, with just him, and try the same stuff again. Don't rush anything!

oreolover
July 2nd, 2010, 03:34 PM
hahah yup i totally agree with lordoftheflies, just take it slow and see where it goes lol :)

Tiberius
July 2nd, 2010, 03:47 PM
P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

CatcherAI
July 2nd, 2010, 04:19 PM
Sounds a little much to be a coincidence. He might just be curious. I'm straight but curious and I probably would have done the same thing.

deco168
July 2nd, 2010, 06:06 PM
I think he could be gay. just get to know him more be like his best friend, go to his house for a sleepover and things like that and see what happens maybe he might say something or their might be more signs. If u really think he might be gay then just ask him see what he says or u might regret it :D tell us whats gonna happen XD

Muscleteen92
July 2nd, 2010, 09:24 PM
I think he could be gay, hang out with him to see where it goes but don't assume anything till ur sure