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Brennan
June 19th, 2010, 02:17 PM
How do I know if im going to stay gay or if my sexuality is going to change (hormones)? I have a boyfriend right now and i've had 3 girlfriends before. I'm a million times happier with my boyfriend then with my previous girlfriends, those relationships were pointless. When I was 11-14, I liked girls. Before then I can't remember much, but I have done some stuff with friends before. I really don't want this to be a phase but I want to know. How can I be sure?

Botchy
June 19th, 2010, 07:44 PM
You cant be sure but if you say you million times happier with your boyfriend then it appers that you are more happy with a guy.
The thing is do you think to yourself i want a long term relationship with a guy? this time in 10 years will i still be like this?.
If you can see yourself still being with your current bf or some other guy when your a full grown adlut and want to be with a guy in day to day life then its more then likely that you have true feelings for boys.

The main thing is being happy, and if you are more happy being with a guy then a girl then the could meen your gay, as long as your happy thats all that matters.
But only one person can tell you if your gay and that is you, mabey you wont know for a while but look deep in your heart and think what is best for me.

nick
June 20th, 2010, 01:54 AM
You cant be sure, sexuality can fluctuate at this time, I know mine does, but as time goes on it does become clearer what feels right for you. I'm sort of similar, I've been with girls but believe I'm gay now because that was just sex and doesnt mean anything, its not where my heart is. You could be gay or you could be bi, it seems unlikely that you are straight. Just go with the flow for now, be yourself, thats all that matters.