Am I too much a slut to tell about being raped?

[somethinghappened]

Earlier while I was at the party there was guy who was flirting with me and I talked to him for a while. We went away and started fooling around. I didn't want to have sex just experiment kiss and stuff. I know he's one of those twisted type guys but I kind of found it sexy at the time. Anyway after a while he started making advances I didn't let him though at all. He then put a knife to my neck and forced me to have sex with him. I called the police afterwards everyone got upset I couldn't say anything I knew no one would believe since I have been wth a lot of guys and being a guy myself I know if my parents found out they'd be angry that I was undressed kissing another guy. WHAT SHOULD i DO?

[soccer8]

thats a hard one well i would start by telling your dad or something and tell him the whole thing or something or just say this guy was being all flirty with you and you talked for a while and went away and he put a knife to you and go from there telling the whole truth just leaving out the other parts if your not confortable with them and tell them the whole truth later when your confortable with it but why didnt the police tell them?

[somethinghappened]

I called but like I said I couldn't tell what actually happened. I just froze up.

[nick]

Your past sexual history should be of no concern to the police. If you have been raped an knife point that is an incredibly serious crime and you need to report it, that guy needs to be stopped and you need to be sure he isnt going to come after you again.

[Kaius]

Well, in this situation i think its better to have your parents mad at you, and get the justice for it than to let him go free and not let them know a thing. Even though they'd be mad, they'd still support you. Being raped isn't something you can let slide, and chances are if he's done it to you, he could do it to someone else, because he'll know he can get away with it. Not to mention the serious harm he threatened to do by pointing the knife at your throat if you didn't go though with what he wanted. If you need to talk at all feel free to pm me

[somethinghappened]

Well, in this situation i think its better to have your parents mad at you, and get the justice for it than to let him go free and not let them know a thing. Even though they'd be mad, they'd still support you. Being raped isn't something you can let slide, and chances are if he's done it to you, he could do it to someone else, because he'll know he can get away with it. Not to mention the serious harm he threatened to do by pointing the knife at your throat if you didn't go though with what he wanted. If you need to talk at all feel free to pm me


I don't know if he's ever done that before but like I don't want to send that message but I don't even want to be gay yet it would hurt if my parents thought I was a permiscuise gay,

[imcool_17]

you honestly did the right thing and handled it the right way in my eyes, i mean you have to sacrafice. you don't want the guy to kill you over stupid stuff like that and then if you didn't tell the police he'd probably come back and rape you everytime he could. you did the right thing

[starrburst]

You should tell them, It will be hard...and pretty awkward but this guy needs to be stopped. It wasn't your fault you had sex with him, he could of killed you...your parents will be shocked, but happy that you told them. Or they should be...o.O

[somethinghappened]

You should tell them, It will be hard...and pretty awkward but this guy needs to be stopped. It wasn't your fault you had sex with him, he could of killed you...your parents will be shocked, but happy that you told them. Or they should be...o.O


I hope they don't hate me fr it..

[starrburst]

I don't think they will, they should understand. Just tell them everything, and if they do say something about how you shouldn't of being doing that in the first place just tell them you know, tell them your sorry. They should be very supportive, it is a serious situation.

[somethinghappened]

yeah well that was bad.

[somethinghappened]

guess it was better telling but I still just wish I would've just done it with him and this wouldn't be an issue then but I didn't know so that's jus fucked up life.

[Daniel_]

Did he actually like, hard core anal pound you?

If so, thats terrible man, sorry to hear it.
But if I were you, I would go down to the police station and tell them what happened, but ask them if they could keep it from your parents, then afterwords talk with your father privately.

[The Dark Lord]

Tell the police. If you don't then he could rape again, it is a very serious crime

[JUSTI]

Earlier while I was at the party there was guy who was flirting with me and I talked to him for a while. We went away and started fooling around. I didn't want to have sex just experiment kiss and stuff. I know he's one of those twisted type guys but I kind of found it sexy at the time. Anyway after a while he started making advances I didn't let him though at all. He then put a knife to my neck and forced me to have sex with him. I called the police afterwards everyone got upset I couldn't say anything I knew no one would believe since I have been wth a lot of guys and being a guy myself I know if my parents found out they'd be angry that I was undressed kissing another guy. WHAT SHOULD i DO?

Just read ur post and im really sorry that happened to u. Thats terrible.

[kyle95]

Nick is right mate, that's a serious "crime". Your gender identity concerns do not trump a serious crime. Parents may seem tough but when it comes to their own child, they will protect first then ask questions later. Your father isn't stupid, he'll know how to seek justice without putting you through more pain. There's no need to for you to suffer further - what would you tell a girl if she experienced the same thing? I would hope you'd tell her to call the Police and not to leave out any details. Good luck

[QUUIT]

If you can't do it for yourself, do it for other potential victims out there. Report him. He held you to knife point. If he did this to you, he'll likely do it to others. Any half decent police officer will be non judgmental, and loving parents will be the same way. You have NOTHING to be ashamed about.

[DanielBoy]

What a twisted piece of shit. Don't let him get away with what he did to you, talk to the police. Your parents cannot tell you what you are, and if they get mad your gay, eff em. It doesn't matter if it is guy on girl, girl on guy or guy on guy, no means no. Pulling a knife on you is assault with a deadly weapon. He is counting on you being too embarrassed about being gay to say anything. YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR PARENTS AND THE POLICE, or he wins!

I am in the closet about being BI, but you can bet if it happened to me, I would not hesitate to tell the world about my sexuality, and would not hesitate to send his ass to jail, where he can be made someone else's bitch!

I hope you make the right choice, ignoring it will hurt you and your relationships in the long run! Please talk to your parents and the police. :\