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misery_business
June 18th, 2010, 10:27 AM
Ok so my friend Chloe, she's been spending alot of time with me and this morning her other friends sent her a message telling her how they didn't like her talking to me and hanging out with me because i've tuned her into someone else,
so we have both been really upset today so we didn't speak to each other during break or the other two lesson we had together.

then after lunch we had english and she looked really upset and I was really upset because everyone was blaming me for ruining Chloe and her other friends friendship. Then I started crying in class:whoops: and everyone was talking about me so Chloe heard.

then the teacher saw how upset I was and he asked me what was wrong the after a few minutes Chloe came over when I was talking to my teacher and she was crying too, we went to the toilets and we apologized and we're good now but everyone in my class hates me because they think I caused all the problems and got chloe's friends in trouble.
And chloe is still upset because she wants to be friends with me and her other friends too but her other friends told her to choose.

I feel like this is all my fault :( it hurts me to see her upset and crying.
and I just don't know what to do ?
How can I convince her other friends that I'm, not stealing chloe away and It's not my fault she's changed.

Contra
June 18th, 2010, 08:44 PM
It is not your fault, her friends are being stupid. In fact, they aren't being real friends if they are forcing her to choose. By the way, in which way has she changed to them?

Well, talk to her friends and tell her it's not your fault. If they don't listen to you, talk to Chloe and tell her to talk to them and try to be reasonable. I mean, Chloe can be friends with you and them. She has to make them understand that.
Don't feel that way, I can see by your signature that you love Chloe so just continue being her friend as you have been, okay?

Good luck :)

misery_business
June 19th, 2010, 02:57 AM
Thanks, and yea i love her alot :D
Chloe tried to talk to her friends though but they wouldn't listen, so i'll try and talk to them. And they said that i've turned her all dark and emo, i know that's not my fault but I feel so bad seeing her so upset :( it just kills me.

Contra
June 19th, 2010, 09:22 PM
Thanks, and yea i love her alot :D
Chloe tried to talk to her friends though but they wouldn't listen, so i'll try and talk to them. And they said that i've turned her all dark and emo, i know that's not my fault but I feel so bad seeing her so upset :( it just kills me.

Good, I hope they listen to you so the whole situation gets fixed. :)

And by the way, if they don't listen to either of you, you shouldn't sweat it, because they are being really unreasonable. I know she may be upset but I can see you're close friends, and plus, she can have other friends.