Why?

[DismaliciouSx]

I'm new to this site so i think this belongs here. anyways, i'm hoping you guys can help, my life is a mess in my opinion. i have like zero friends and a million people who hate me, i'm told so many times the world would be a better place without me i'm starting to believe it. My best friend that i could honestly tell anything to doesn't even look at me anymore. freshman year i dated my best friend and the we broke up and that messed everything up. and now i have a HUGE crush on friend again, she doesn't leave my thoughts (see i keep screwing my own life up, so its fine if you guys don't care, i'm used to it). and i'm not sure why but i really wish i had a bro around my age, maybe it's because i've never had a very good relationship with my dad. Ok i've been complaining too much, sorry to bug you guys.

[CaliKid24]

No don't worry. Why do u feel like that? And btw On this site people care about ur problems.

[DismaliciouSx]

i feel that way because in my thoughts its true, and what friends i have i'm not that close too and they're slowly slipping away like the rest. and no one apparently can see through my fake smile, my crush is the only one that makes me happy but i dont wanna F' up like i did last time by dating a friend

[LoveMe_HateMe]

don't worry about 'bugging' us we're all here and happy to help you :)

i feel that way because in my thoughts its true, and what friends i have i'm not that close too and they're slowly slipping away like the rest. and no one apparently can see through my fake smile, my crush is the only one that makes me happy but i dont wanna F' up like i did last time by dating a friend

i know exactly how feel about the whole not being that close to the friends that you do have and they're slipping away and the fake smiles. i would offer you some advice but as i'm in the same situation (kinda), i don't really have much useful advice. i supose the reason i'm babbling on about shit all is just letting you know that your not completely alone.

yeah this reply sucks, sorry couldn't be more useful :/

[karl]

I'm not the best at giving advice, I'm often one of those who asks, but I know there are plenty of guys and gals on here only too willing to help. On here you'll never have to feel alone.

[Mike321]

Welcome to VT, you'll never be alone here
I know how you feel, I spent most of my school life on my own, and there was a point where I had no friends at all and no one would talk to me, and I let loads of things slip away in the past so I've been there.

This isnt very useful I know but, your not alone dont worry
PM me or any of us if you need someone to talk to

[misery_business]

We are all here to help and support each other :)
I know what it's like to crush on your best fried and i don't have any sibilings and myrelationship with my parents ain't that great either, anyways you could talk to any of us ! we are all happy to help!

[DismaliciouSx]

Misery Business I Love That "When Nothing Goes Right, Go Left"
Also Thanks For All The Comments Guys, I'm So Happy I Found This Site

[Aspiringanonymous]

I'm glad to hear you've found support here, that's what this place is for. :)

I've never had many friends either, just a select few along the way that never had a chance to grow before being torn apart by circumstances. I remember experiencing the plague of loneliness, but I also remember - slowly, although it was always present in small amounts - learning to cultivate an appreciation of life reasonably independent of "significant others": family, friends, relationship partners.

I don't deny that humans are social by nature, and nothing can quite substitute for adequate social contact, but I am content with maintaining a certain degree of formality in interpersonal relations. A person doesn't have to be considered a best (or even close) friend to have an impact, there doesn't necessarily need to be huge amounts of time spent together either - so long as their presence has enriched you in some way. That is what I seek; and I hold no expectations towards those who come into my life except to offer some form of intellectual or spiritual companionship, thus no disappointments.

I know what it's like to feel separate from people in general, like an outcast to the world; but do not lose hope, for in truth we are never alone. Out of the billions of people inhabiting the Earth, there's bound to be a reasonable number out there who also have held on to their unique attributes in spite of the conformity of the masses.

Modern-day social interaction is very much characterized by fake smiles. That is what makes the rare trusted confidante so invaluable, as they are difficult to come across. Never lose heart. The world is a big place, and the opinions of a few people are just that - a few out of too many to count, by no means representative of the entirety.

The internet, although an imperfect medium, is one such place to begin.

May light shine through the darkness. :hug3: